How do you???????

Question

HOW DO YOU GET BACK ON YOUR FEET AFTER HAVING YOUR HEART AND DREAMS TORN APART???<

Answer 1

Time it the Key .

Answer 2

Unfortunately, the old cliche is true - "one day at a time." Try to minimize, if not completey stop all contact with the heart-braker/dream-tearer (this is assuming you are talking about a relationship of the romantic variety). It is hard and painful, but eventually you can look back and glean some knowledge about yourself and what you want from a relationship. If you made mistakes, own up to them and vow not to make the same ones. If you were the wronged party, vow to yourself that you will not let yourself be treated with anything less the 100% respect.

Answer 3

time, time, time is what it takes. even if you go out partying all the time or do other things to get it off your mind it's only temporary. it's true what they say that time heals all wounds. focus on yourself and your self image. do you need to work on something that contributed to the breakup? if not, then realize that it wasn't your fault and the other person has issues to work on. if so, then work on changing those to better yourself so the same thing doesn't happen in the future. everything happens for a reason and usually to teach you some lesson about yourself and help you grow as a person.
I've been through several relationships and I've learned from each one, even the ones that hurt for a long time after they were over. but now i'm in a great relationship where we can both be open and honest with each other and share all our feelings. i'm glad i didn't meet him earlier than i did because i'm sure i would have done something stupid to mess it up.
just take it one day at a time.

Answer 4

Slowly. Don't be afraid to be a a big heaping of self pity for a little while. Get down to the lowest you can feel, and then think of the person who put you there. Really, not so great after all if they can make you feel so blue, are they? You then remember that you are better than that, and much to good to be this big puddle of "sorry for yourself" . You are too good for them if they pulled the rug out from you. Ok, now stop crying after that and remember why you are the great person they were so attracted to in the first place. Maybe the next one will see that and NOT want to let it go.

Answer 5

well first off youngster you spend a lot of time away from the heart breaker

second off you find yourself a hobby or something positive to do with yourself

if you can get a new woman on the scene, it will help matters, but then you might find the new relationship tainted with issues from the past one

time heals all wounds

Answer 6

well sadly thats a part of life. It makes us stronger.The first time is always the worst but you will learn from it in the long run and you will learn to be prepared and more careful. You will learn to not give it your all and all at once . take it slow. Just keep yourself busy by hanging with friend familly.

Answer 7

If you start doing something, some activity which is good, or just work you won't have your mind on it. After a while you will be over it. But don't quit if you're doing something worthwhile and respectable. It should pass :))

Answer 8

you take a deep breath and realize it is going to take some time to put back the peoces and allow yourself some pity time! Things will start to look up once you start to realize that it is not the end of the world.

Answer 9

Just keep getting out of bed every morning. Eventually the pain will subside.

Answer 10

go for an overseas holiday, somewhere with poverty, it will change the way you think about life, and you will be pround of what you have. I know for a fact your better than other cos you have interenet access

Answer 11

Move on to a new dream. your heart will mend in time.