Well ive been with this guy for 3 years and 2 months, the first year i was with him he was never abusive, the second year i was with him he still never showed abusiveness..... the third year i was with him I started to see the abusiveness, when we'd argue, which was like starting to be an every other day thing, he would like get in my face like a centimeter away and call me names like b*tch, whore, slut, i f*cking hate you and stuff like that and i wouldnt know what to say or do back. Sometimes he'd even leave me on the side of the rode to walk home. I know this sounds stupid but i feel like i love him too much to leave him adn stop this, and I thin but HOW THE HELL DO I LOVE HIM when he treats me that way. Now hes starting to ignore me, yell at me more, pich my stomach and arms and grab me and push me away and drive off. I use to cut myself when hed do that and overdose on pills and not tell him, but I can't keep doing this its so hard, how can I get out of this and get help??
2007-02-07 09:11:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also i need help too cause i see him at school everyday and at church on Sundays, so if i brake up with him, itll be soooo hard cause i see him everywhere!!! Also I gave up all my friends for him and i quit gymnastics and NAtional Honor Society for him, and so if we brake up, who do i go to for help and not miss him, and by braking up with him dealing with lonlieness
2007-02-07 09:13:45 · update #1
break it off with him and tell an adult.
stand up for yourself.
noone should be treated that way.
2007-02-07 13:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by staciesweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋