There was this boy who is a good friend who was rubbing on my back with his hand up my shirt and then kinda put his finger down my pants i mean it felt great and everything but the thing is i told him to stop but then i just quit cuz he wouldn't but i have a boyfriend right now does that mean that i cheated on him???? he knows i have a boyfriend too!!
2007-02-07 08:57:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, Ive been with my man for 3 years and he massages me.
No big deal.
However this guy had his bare hands on your back which Im sure felt real good. He then took advantage of the situation. He knew he had
you feeling all good and he knew he could stick his hands down your pants, and he did.
But this chica ahead of me is right. You had to really want this to happen. He must be fine as hell or maybe your boyfriend doesn't do that to you.
You should think about what made you want a massage from him in the first place.
Maybe ask your boyfriend to massage you???
Let your boyfriend know how much you love massages and if he is reluctant then you know he doesn't really care about your feelings.
Hope this helps.
2007-02-07 09:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by DallasDinna341 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you didn't cheat on your boyfriend as long as there was no sexual contact, you should have made the other boy stop or walked away if he wouldn't. Now if he had his hands in your pants and was playing with your privates, then yes, you cheated by allowing it to continue. The other boy has no respect for you or your relationship and isn't showing himself to be a very good friend by making moves on you when he knew you were with someone else.
2007-02-07 17:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want us to say? Yes? No?
You had intimate fun with someone who is not your boyfriend. Would your boyfriend be upset by this. Would you be upset if he did this to another woman. Have you talked with him about such boundaries and what your expectations are? These are much more relevant questions than just lumping the problem into either Cheated/not Cheated
2007-02-07 17:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by tim d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is cheating. You should stop him if you did not want anything further to happen. But personally I think you are attractive to this good friend of yours.
And deep inside your self you wanted more to happen.
Be honest with yourself and choose who you want to be with.
2007-02-07 17:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by Christina L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does because u gave up on tellin him to stop and you enjoyed so you might as well dump ur boyfriend and with both who keeps fingerin you k
2007-02-07 17:06:18 · answer #5 · answered by stefy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah.. you cheated. you could have stopped it long before any of that happened.
2007-02-07 17:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup, no doubt about it. would you like it if another girl play with your bf's stuff
2007-02-07 17:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋