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well he called it off with me in nov and like in dec i asked him if i cd have the money that he was going to give me when were going still and he told me that he has to wait to see if the baby is even going to live long in order to b born well now im in my 6th month so the baby is going live and i just wrote him about him still giveing me the money then i said if i need to i will ask your dad for the money for ur baby do u thinki should asked his dad for the money for his son baby im going to get money for my baby when he is born bec that how r state works but i need money befour hand so i cna but stuff for r baby what do u think i should do about this ???

2007-02-07 08:55:34 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

sorry the first part is kind mass up so here it is again ok in september when we found out that we were pregnant we were still going out then he promised me $400 dollars for the baby stuff and then in nov he called it off me and kick his house the whole 9 yards and then in dec i asked him he was still going to b giving me the $400 dollars and he said well i have to wait to see if the baby is going to make it that far to b born i just wrote to him asking him if i canb still have the money bec i need for my soon to b born son and then i said i cd always asked ur dad for the money if i need to its ur kid to do u think i should have done that or will it back fire on me and get me in trouble in long run with me saying that i cd always ask ur dad for the money my baby daddy does not even want anything to do with r baby that what one of his family members told me well i hope u can tell me what u wd do in my place thanks

2007-02-07 09:02:27 · update #1

12 answers

i don't know.... but his father sure sounds like a jerk. I'm wishing i could kick his *** right now and i don't even know him. that is his child whether you two are together or not. he should be ashamed of himself.

2007-02-07 08:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by purple rain 5 · 0 0

Don't ask his Dad for the money. I couldn't do that, my pride gets in the way most of the time. Plus, it isn't any of his Dad's business. I don't see why he has to cough up the money, $400 is a lot.
Sit down and talk to his Dad, ask his advice such as 'Hi there ____, listen your son promised me some money to get ready for the birth of his son/daughter but still hasn't helped me. I can't do this alone, I can't work since I'm 6 months into the pregnancy. Can you please talk to your son?'
His Dad may listen and talk to your ex-boyfriend father to son.

2007-02-07 17:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sorry, but i don't think he'll give you anything right now and don't think you have any legal recourse with his promice.Don't pester him about it. I know you are anxious to prepare for the baby and that is what is on your mind.Guys don't get it the way a mother does. It will be more real to him when the baby is born.You'll be able to get child support provided he keeps a job.Hope for him to keep working and let the state deal with him.good luck.

2007-02-07 17:04:58 · answer #3 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0 0

Girl...... it takes two to make a baby. I think you should get the money that you and your baby are entitled for. Now as for as your ex bf......cut him off. Or if you really love him give him time to get ready for the baby coming. Stay strong and I wish you well

2007-02-07 17:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by morena_presiosa_82 1 · 0 0

well i think the father of your baby should take responsibility, you can talk to your ex's dad and let him know whats going on and maybe he will offer you money or to buy you what the baby needs. theirs no way you can make either of them buy anything until the baby is born.

2007-02-07 17:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by fallen_angel 4 · 0 0

This is EXACTLY why women should take more time and use better judgement before deciding to put themselves in the position of becoming pregnant by some dodo...

There is nothing you can do now, Dear. EXCEPT realize that YOU have the primary responsibility for this child now...fact of life.

2007-02-07 17:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by sage seeker 7 · 0 1

why are kids havings babies?? Sounds like you're gonna be on your own with this baby. So maybe it's time you stop depending on his money and take responsibility. Soon enough you should be able to file for child support, and then you wont have to ask him.

2007-02-07 17:00:14 · answer #7 · answered by marisanj 5 · 1 1

After your baby is born, take him to court for child support.

2007-02-07 16:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0 0

ask him then if he says something like an excuc to not giving you the money then go ask his dad.

2007-02-07 17:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by mi hi yo 2 · 0 0

i think u should talk to him and find out why he doesnt want to give u the money maybe hes scared and panicky just take things slow and time will tell i hope i helped you out

2007-02-07 17:00:38 · answer #10 · answered by stefy 1 · 0 0

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