Yes I know the idea of consent and rape are diametrically opposed but I still feel the need to be taken by force and made to perform even though I'm actually quite willing (yes I know weird huh?).
2007-02-07 08:49:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no its not wierd everyone fanticizes like that sometimes
2007-02-07 08:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do not know your age, but there is a psychological reason for your preference for having and needing to be dominated sexually. I realize that sexual fantasies can be healthy. I do feel that every intimate encounter should not have to consist of the NEED to be taken by force. Intimacy should also be kind,gentle and caring. I am not sure, however, I do wonder if you suffered from something tragic in your early childhood, or the lack of normalcy regarding the correlation between love and sex.
2007-02-07 17:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being taken by force is not Rape. The phrase "being taken" has a hidden implication of acceptance. When somebody refuses to stop when asked; that is rape.
2007-02-07 17:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by tim d 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Consensual rape? That's a total oxymoron. You mean "rough sex." And who wouldn't love to just be pushed up against the wall and pounded hard?
2007-02-07 18:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No its actually not that weird. Lots of people enjoy this. Everyones different so we're all going to enjoy different things. So it may be weird to you but quite normal to someone else.
2007-02-07 16:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by Susana M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's pretty normal...I wouldn't worry too much about it. As long as the person who is taking you "by force" is a safe person who you trust and knows the boundaries and you're not putting yourself in dangerous situations.
2007-02-07 16:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consent and rape are opposites. I would say this idea that you have is pretty common.
2007-02-07 16:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by tchem75 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It aint actually that weird....the world is made up of different strokes for different folks.
2007-02-07 16:54:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call it dominance and submission, not rape.......
I think that is what you are talking about.
Rape is NOT consensual!
2007-02-07 16:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not weird. I have fantasies like that all the time.
2007-02-07 16:53:47 · answer #10 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rape by definition is not consensual.you need a shrink.you need to think of the women who have been raped and walk in their shoes.
2007-02-07 17:00:03 · answer #11 · answered by Ms Scarlet 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋