I need some attention too, not just her son. There's a woman at work that I talk to about this and we've gotten close. She's hinted a couple of times that she would take care of what's missing in my relationship.
What should I do?
I wrote a blog dedicated to this topic to expand on my thoughts. If you are curious... CHECK OUT MY PROFILE FOR THE LINK.
2007-02-07 08:41:55 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you arent happy in the realtionship, dont cheat, talk to her and possibly leave the relationship.
Never cheat, ever. It is the worst thing you can do, might seem good now, seems worse later. So good luck!
2007-02-07 08:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok that is a really stupid question! Sorry, but come on who in the hell trys to get you to cheat on someone? hint hint! it shows you where he morals are! And if the relationship isnt working out than leave it dont flippin cheat and when you leave the relationship if you do. Dont go to little Mrs. cheat on your girlfreind. I can garuntee she would probably end up cheating on you. Talk to your Girl find a middle ground but you know what she has a son and her son should be her top priority not you and if you cant understand that than your obviosly immature for that relationship. Dont ever expect a mother to put her child before you it wont happen. And if you wanted to spend time with her why not spend a little more time with her and her child because her son will always be part of her wether you like that or not.
2007-02-07 16:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a mother. Her son comes FIRST and that's the way it should be.
I don't care what your blog says, cheating is never OK.
You're not married, you can just leave the relationship if it's not a good fit. If you want somebody else, then grow a pair and be honest with the woman you're seeing now. Simply tell her it's not working out and you can't see her anymore. She at least deserves that much.
2007-02-07 16:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u are seriously thinking of cheating on her then u have to ask urself if u really love her. I think u might just want the physical part of the relationship and not the emotional side.I dont want to judge u but u should talk to her as adults and 1st let her know how u feel and if she cant accomodate ur needs,then move on.
god bless
2007-02-07 16:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by martin c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you don't want her for a girlfriend anymore. If you cannot respect that she is a mother first and a girlfriend second, then you don't deserve her. Quit worrying about what you want and need and start paying attention to what she wants and needs. If you have to sleep with this other woman, be a man and break it off with your girlfriend first, it is far less painful for her to be dumped then to find out you are cheating on her.
2007-02-07 16:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of sad really, I looked at your intro on your page.... Cheating, the word itsself implies lying, betrayal, and total self-absorption. And I totally agree, while single, you should experience all that life has to offer, but don't you think there are ways to do it with honor? Well, perhaps, you don't. But it saddens me to think that you believe the only way to achieve these things is to lie and cheat. WOMEN deserve a whole lot more.
2007-02-07 16:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if your girlfriend doesn't treat you like a boyfriend, then the relationship isn't working for you. talk to her about it. tell her.
second of all, if you even think about cheating then you must not care about her enough to give her the support she needs as a single mom. it sounds like the relationship isn't working for either of you. talk about it. if you need to hire a babysitter so the two of you can have some alone time together.
2007-02-07 16:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by anika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you shouldnt cheat on her then she'll think its all her fault and if you do want to stay with her ask if she needs help with house work or Even help with her son she'll appreciate it, but there's no reason for cheating on her just because she's takin care of her son and if you and another girl have gotten close you've allready almost cheating on her, if you love her you woudnt leave her and you would help her out
2007-02-07 16:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by ms. hotty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you arent happy in the realtionship, dont cheat, talk to her and possibly leave the relationship.
Never cheat, ever. It is the worst thing you can do, might seem good now, seems worse later.
2007-02-07 16:45:06 · answer #9 · answered by Drew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dont do that, that would hurt her. If you are not happy with the relationship and you feel that someone else can give you what she is not giving you then break up with her but dont cheat on her.
2007-02-07 16:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by kathernva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋