one of my closest friends is a guy, that goes do a different school, and i have a crush on him. he saw one of my other friends and he told them that he hates me and wishes he would of never met me!!!! once she told me that all the dots conected..he's been lying to me the entire time!!!!, he says he has a differnet gf every time i talk to him which is like evry other week or so., and he hasnt talked to me the same since he started to lie..we used to be really really good friends. wat should i do- should i stay his friend and forgive him or wat???
2007-02-07 08:40:05 · 12 answers · asked by ~~#1 cowgirl~~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear Country gal, i think that you should tell him what you think. Talk to him.Ask him what is wrong. Try to spare your friendship with him. Maybe you were trying too hard to impress him. Give him some space and time to think. You need to ask him why he lied to you. Maybe if you are lucky, he was just nervous around you, maybe he just needs to get to know you better. Just give hime another chance. like they say, three stikes and your out.
I really hope that it works out for you.
2007-02-08 09:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by Zoey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first thing you need to find out is why he hates you. is it something that you done or something about you that he dislikes. Either way you will know what he really thinks about you.
After that if you think he still understand you as a person that you are go ahead and firgive him otherwise dump him as a friend.
2007-02-07 16:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by GoodGuy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me get this straight.... this guy hates you and wishes he'd never met you, but you think he's one of your closest friends?? First, you really need to look up the definition of the word "friend," and second, he's not asking you for forgiveness, he wants you out of his life. Move on.
2007-02-07 16:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by Josh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that dude is WAY screwed up, and you really need to tell this dude that he hurt you by lying to you, and then going behind your back and telling your friend this. Then cut off all ties to this loser, and move on. There are plenty of people out there who are willing to be a helluva better friend than him.
2007-02-07 16:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by El Jefe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, maybe he is just plain mean. Dont try to be his friend. If he really likes you, then he would show it. I really think that he is a but hole and that you should not try to be his gf. He is lieing to be popular.
2007-02-07 16:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he lies, thats not a true friend. a true friend tells u secrets and keeps urs secret, cheers u up when ur down, and lets u be who u want to be. well, if he thinks that ur dating another guy, say, "im not dating any other guy." if he yells at u, then i dont think that would make a great bf for u.
2007-02-07 16:44:12 · answer #6 · answered by Hugs & Kisses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he knows you like him
and it sounds like he does
he's going to run run run
for it's not you he loves
and if you're pushing
as it seems like you are
then forgiveness isn't really something
that'll take you very far
your best bet is to walk
you can't make him turn
and it's not good to stalk
better you live and learn
2007-02-07 17:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another friend. It's bad enough he's playin' with you, but if he's lying, it would be nice to at least be consistent.
2007-02-07 16:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pathetic. He's not even sleeping with you and he is lying to you for no purpose. Dumb. Get a new friend.
2007-02-07 16:44:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him alone, he is obviously a piece a Sh@t... geeeez....
2007-02-07 16:43:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋