Okay me and this really hot SINGLE guy are like friends with benefits and I was wondering how do I get him to ask me out cause I really like him more than friends. What do I do?
2007-02-07 08:30:16 · 20 answers · asked by skatergirl3722 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't make him ask you out, but there is no reason you can't ask him out. Invite him to dinner or a movie, just talk to him and see what happens.
2007-02-07 08:33:00 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's what happens every single time. A "friends with benefits" relationship consists of a guy that is taing advantage of a girl that wants more, but pretends to be "cool." It's your fault, though. Next time don't be a whore.
2007-02-07 16:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by bloodoftheconquered 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "and benefits" part needs more definition. If it means you are having sex..give it up ..he is just using you. Sorry but if he wanted any thing more that sex..he would have asked you out in the first place.
2007-02-07 16:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by whatelsewhatever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that while he is fantastic in bed.. that you would like to do other things than besides bedroom gymnastics with him and then suggest a couple of other activities and see what he says.
Chances are though that you may really be a booty call so be prepared for a "no thank you".
2007-02-07 16:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a great opportunity to see what he values most in your friendship. You've been bold enough to sleep with him, just ask him out! If he says no, then you will know that you are nothing more than a sex partner. If he says yes, then have fun!
2007-02-07 16:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by Liza 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these time of the days its pretty simple but hard to do for ladies to really tell a guy about these stuff but maybe simple gesture might be enough for him to let him know your on to him. well they say action speaks louder than words but then again its better to tell him to avoid misunderstanding your actions. Good Luck!
2007-02-07 16:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by killah_max 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats wrong with you asking him out? Worst hes gonna say is no... Sheesh I thought you chicks wanted to be equal?
2007-02-07 16:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should ask him out before its too late.don't lit that happen to you.that is what happened to me i waited 2 long and he was gone by the time i new it.you just have to step up and lite your feelings out.ever since that happened i no to tell the person as soon as i feel it in me.
2007-02-07 16:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by mi hi yo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, if you're already sleeping with him, going out with him socially shouldn't be that big a deal. Just ask him out!
2007-02-07 16:34:04 · answer #9 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well if i was you i would ask him out if i liked him that much or have one of your BEST friemds do it for you and not a friend who would ask him out for herself i hope this works.
2007-02-07 16:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by babieblue1980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋