ok i really like this and we hang out alot but i am a freshman in college and never been in a relationship (parents are a little protective) anyway i am really nervous about tellin him how i feel and we always talk online and i was wondering if i could tell him how i feel over an email (actually a facebook message)
i am really curious cause anytime i want to tell him in person i can't do it and chicken out
what do i do?
2007-02-07 08:28:58 · 8 answers · asked by soccer1892003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For something as personal as opening up your heart to someone and sharing your feelings - I think you should do it face to face. If you are face to face, it will have more meaning for both of you. Good luck!
2007-02-07 08:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by Leah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girls gotta do what a girl's gotta do- and if you gotta tell him over email, go for it! I know what you mean by being shy- I've liked a guy for over four years and I'm still scared to look at him. It's okay to tell a guy how you feel online. In some ways it's better because if he says no, you won't have to melt into a puddle at his feet. You are also alot more open when you using a keyboard instea dof staring him in the face.
So go for it! Knowing from an email is better than not knowing at all!
2007-02-07 16:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. It's so much easier to say stuff online and you can go a lot faster than you mean to. Sometimes, though, that's not a bad thing. I flirted a lot with my current boyfriend online as well as in person and it was online that he asked me if I liked him. We've been together for three months now. However, it was also online that we had our only fight. So, take it *** grano salis. Don't pour your heart out, just state the fact. Make sure it's private as well--if it's something everyone can read, it's awkward.
2007-02-07 16:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it this way, if you tell him in person you will be able to explain it more, if you do it online you wont be able to explain it as much and dont chicken out because one day he might find a girlfriend and you will be heart broken. So do it, thats in my opinion tho up to you what to do.
2007-02-07 16:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should do it face to face. But if you insist on doing it indirectly, at least do so through INSTANT messaging or the phone, where they practically have to respond. If you email him, there is a likely chance he might never reply or bring it up. Awkwardness.
2007-02-07 16:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by Aida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl u need to gain some confidence in yourself. U should just tell him in person but u can also tell him online if u want.
2007-02-07 16:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok tell him online...at least he is not front of u
2007-02-07 16:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by max h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a medium is a medium...talk anyway you can
2007-02-07 16:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋