Here's the deal, my ex-boyfriend and I were together for 3 1/2 years. We basically broke up because I wasn't ready to settle down and have kids, yet he is. I guess he started to resent me so we broke up last March. I was hurt when he said he didn't love me anymore. Now it's been 10mths since we broke up (and he was almost out of my system) but he started coming back around as of last month. So to my surprise, he's been affectionate and lovey-dovey again. Well, here's the kicker...he told me right after we broke up, he got a girl pregnant!! Could I be anymore hurt? So, ofcourse I still love him the same as I always did but now I'm confused. He says he doesn't even want to be with the girl. I'm not sure if that's game he's running?? I don't wanna cut him off completely. Guys, what the hell should I do??
2007-02-07 08:26:50 · 16 answers · asked by qutegyrl_81 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah that serve him rite!
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2007-02-07 08:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by Oh My God! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut the dude off even though it hurts. He's only coming back because he was almost completely out of your life, he wants that insurance policy (this being you). Plus, he's already got baggage, who wants that. Make your life with someone who deserves you. Guys need to be needed and wanted, he sees that you're almost completely out of the picture and he wants to be sure he still has you around just in case he wants to settle down later. Also, he's already got that other girl locked down (after all she does have his kid) and he's bored of her. The more girls the merrier.
Leave this chump. He couldn't commit then he can't now.
TX
2007-02-07 16:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by 2timer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have said that to make you jealous, do you know for sure that he got someone pregnant? If you love him and are ready to give him what he wants, settling down, then go for it. However, if he did get another girl pregnant, you have to accept that he has a child by someone else and will have to pay support for it and may end up having to raise the child.
2007-02-07 16:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, go back with the guy who 'wants to settle down and have kids' yet now has a new-born baby by another woman whom he's willing to drop. That's obviously the better choice.
How pathetic.
2007-02-07 16:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by Fire_God_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO NONO NO NO NO NO AND NOO!
Theres a reason hes your "EX". Don't even try. Hes not worth it.
He got another girl pregnant, stay the f*** away from him. Hes only coming back because he doesn't have another girlfriend.
2007-02-07 16:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by Manda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps getting what he wants with out making a commitment , well then you know he is having his cake and eating it. STay away , it's better to find new , then taking the easey way... This will hurt you again...
2007-02-07 16:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by gunfighter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well: it's basicly up to you of which if the best effort just stop
seeing him completely and then find some one else right away
but relize that life stays stronger each day yes as long yourself
can keep for ever !
2007-02-07 16:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your ex for a reason. If he has gotten someone else pregnant you don't need the drama. Go on with your life and let him go on with his. Unless you like to be used and abused.
2007-02-07 16:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was testing you.But you really need to find out if he is or if he isn't seeing anybody because you don't want to get into drama and get hurt again.Best thing to do is just be friends and give it time.
2007-02-07 16:31:25 · answer #9 · answered by wahid d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not. You *should* cut him off completely. This is not a good guy, and he only wants you for the nookie.
Find someone who is worth your time.
2007-02-07 16:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by OMGWTFBBQ!!1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forget him in my opinion . But you should decide on your own because a public advice may lead you a wrong decision .
2007-02-07 16:37:48 · answer #11 · answered by xeibeg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋