We have been together for a while and in the beginning the son was good then as our relationship grew.. the son became nasty. After speaking to him nicely, it was fixed and forgotten.... fiand its been good so far, until the other day he comes out of his face like a snotty punk and I just can't handle it especially acts this way in front of the babysitter.
I did not say anything because I would explode... I am just dying to tell this little brat off... help.. how should I handle this
2007-02-07 08:20:47 · 10 answers · asked by Teresa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has full custody.. He son doesnot see the mom at all. My boyfriend feels I should handle it and let him know who is boss...He will back me, But he says I need to say something, not him.
2007-02-07 08:55:53 · update #1
Well maybe the son is trying to test you. He understands that you are not his mother so he feels you can't punish him. You should talk with the father and tell him the situation. He should do the disciplining but he should only do it if he sees it otherwise he will no you told and he will be angry. Talk with your man and ask him how he would like you to handle the situation.
2007-02-07 08:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by Tim VP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if I understand the question correctly, you have a boyfriend with a son who is a mouthy brat. My first suggestion is to tell his father how he is acting around you and the baby sitter, this could be his way of trying to get rid of you because he wants his dad to get back together with his mom. Eventually, especially if you are to marry your boyfriend, you are going to have to have a confrontation with the son and show him whos boss. Be sure and let him know you are not trying to replace his mother and that she will still be in the picture for him.
2007-02-07 08:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 13:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by linnon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave up to the father. the important thing is that he doesnt touch you. now that would be a problem. if his father want to grow him up with no moral then let him deal with it. that little boy can say whatever he wants as long as he doesnt distruct you or you belongings. his dad has eyes annd a brain he should know his child is unruly.
2007-02-07 08:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by niesy l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your place to handel it. You have to let your boyfriend take care of his child. Talk to him about how you are feeling and get guidance from him as to how he feel if you speak up to his son. If he want you to stay out of it, then you have to reaspect his wishes
2007-02-07 08:25:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd find a new boyfriend. That solves so many problems now and in the future
2007-02-07 08:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by Sabine É 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your bf about throw you feel then if he doesn't tell him anything then you might want to think about getting out of this relationship.
2007-02-07 08:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by Tricee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him you're not afraid to punish him.
maybe just make him go to bed early, kids hate that. and the plus is that it's an extra hour that you don't have to be around him.
2007-02-07 09:04:49 · answer #8 · answered by Amelia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 ur bf bout it.
2007-02-07 08:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur bf to get his kid undercontroll.
2007-02-07 08:24:51 · answer #10 · answered by Landon R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋