2007-02-07 08:19:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you really can't just go out and find "The One" It's just destiny or fate, where two people who come together at the same place, same time etc etc are destined to be together call it soulmates if you will there's someone for every single human being in this world you'll know when you find the one.
2007-02-07 08:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone always says "oh, you will find them when you stop looking!" but come ON! When do you ever really stop looking? We are (for the most part) ALWAYS looking, on some level. We are looking for sex or love or friendship or some combination of all three. We are looking for a connection, always. And there's nothing wrong with that.
I met my boyfriend online. On Match. And *I* messaged him. So much for The Rules. We have been deliriously happy for two years now. You could say I was "looking", I guess I was. But I had an open mind and an open heart about what I was looking FOR. Like I said before, I was really just looking for a connection, whatever form it took.
From a practical standpoint, I think online dating is what EVERYONE should be doing. And not just because it worked out for me. I even review online dating sites now! You can find my Match and Lavalife reviews in the source.
Good luck! There is no best way to find "The One". Just keep your eyes (and mind) open, and enjoy the journey! :-)
2007-02-07 16:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That will take you a life time getting to know yourself & what you like ,how you like it, & what will you do with it after you get it. Most jump in with both feet & end up saying what am i doing here i don't have a clue. So take your time there is no hurry .Make sure the lucky one fills your needs. And you fill his. Ask guestion if you don't understand, keep asking till you do. Well this will keep you busy for a while. Best of luck enjoy have fun
2007-02-07 16:39:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to find "the one" is to not be looking at all.
2007-02-07 16:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be open minded - don't turn guys down just because the are too tall, to heavy, etc. Plan on taking your time and meeting lots of guys before you find the right one.
2007-02-07 16:22:04 · answer #5 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u willing to give beyond limits ,love with no cheating,share evrything i mean evrything every small thing past and present forever ,put him into every detail and share the moments the money the life the days the nights ,when u r willing to do that u have found love and u will find the one,
2007-02-07 16:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by reifguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no best way! it just happens, if your lucky enough you will find the one!
2007-02-07 16:21:58 · answer #7 · answered by ♥AMO♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always felt like it just happened when you least expected it. It seems that if you are looking to hard you may overlook a bad quality that you normally would notice and walk away from.
2007-02-07 16:22:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no particular way to find "the one". it just happens when you least expect it and who you least thought it would be, in most cases. but it does help to keep a clean reputation and a good name cus it is tough to find "the one" when you are usually attractin jerks and ***-holes
2007-02-07 16:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were not talking about neo, right?
The best odds would be a dating service with extensive questionaries, indepth analysis of you very being.
2007-02-07 16:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋