there's this guy i met where i used to work. we would flirt with each other all of the time, and we've had sex like 3 times, and whenever he calls me, I am at school, and whenever i try to call him, his voice mail comes on. i'm so confused! i don't know if i'm just a booty call or what, but if he liked me, wouldn't he be calling me all of the time trying to come and see me? he lives with his babymama, and he lives about an hour away from me. also, whenever we DO get in touch with each other, he tells me he is coming over in about 20 minutes, but then never shows up. is he just extremely busy, or should i read something into this? what should i do, and how does he feel about me?
2007-02-07 08:17:27 · 13 answers · asked by Yvette S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you already know the answer to your question. Have some respect for yourself, and say no to him. He doesn't respect you, so someone's got to!! Besides, maybe that's one of the reasons he uses you... because he knows you won't say no. Put your foot down, and let him know you're not just a piece of ***. If he still comes around, don't shut him down, make him work for your attention. If he is sincere, he will put forth the effort. You go girl!! :)
2007-02-07 08:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just his booty call. What is the matter with you? Did you really need to ask this question, did you not already know this? I mean he hardly ever calls you, when you call him it goes straight to his voice mail, he is living with his baby's mom, I mean what else to you need girl!! I am sorry to sound cruel, but your email really threw me off! You know that thing in between your eyes? Well it is called a brain, use it! Please please have more respect and value for yourself, this guy sounds like a complete jerk! I hope even though this answer might have made you mad that at least you will try to think about what I have said. Here I am upset that he is using you out of concern for you and I do not even know you! Should you not be even MORE concerned for yourself?
2007-02-07 08:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you, but doesn't have the time for a serious relationship right now or he wouldn't ever call you and he would have never had sex with you the second time if he didn't like you.
2007-02-07 08:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Red flag he lives with his baby's momma that's why he can't answer the phone
2. Red flag a guy that is into you doesn't stand you up on dates
3. Seriously quit dating the loser and find a real guy
2007-02-07 08:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i know just how you feel,
i went through the same thing but you know it anit really worth
trying to be with you know
cause you know if you two get together then you know right a way he will play you right!!!!
but maybe im wrong but you know just think bout what you want to do before things really go bad !!!
good luck
2007-02-07 08:35:22 · answer #5 · answered by *Madianna* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lives with his babys' mama what kind of trailer trash are you? I believe you are a booty call. Please refer to the other woman as his ex or current girlfriend or lover babys mama just sounds stupid.
2007-02-07 08:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by firshizel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Booty call my friend
2007-02-07 08:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by Carpe Diem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious?? Girl this guy live with his baby-momma. Hello is anyone home!!! He don't want to be with you. You are just something on the side, when his baby momma is not giving it up. So please for me move on!!!!!
2007-02-07 08:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by jazzie310 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOOTY BOOTY BOOTY
Maybe he just finds you BOOTYful
2007-02-07 13:33:27 · answer #9 · answered by harvman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry, hon, but it sounds like he's not interested in you right now :(
2007-02-07 08:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by Duckie314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋