If you've not spoken to your close female friend for 2 months and when ur mate mentions YOUR NAME and suggests everyone meets up and her REACTION is:
She just goes quiet, he asks her again,mentioning my name and all she says is NO-her mood changed completly after my name was mentioned.She doesn't say anything else until the topic changed.
MEANING?What is she possibly feeling?
All advice appreciated.......
We had a falling out-said I needed time out from her to get over my feelings(we weren't a couple,just got to close) I've apologised numerous times 1 month ago-shes still ignoring me.
Why is she hurting-she only wanted to be friends-wanted to respect her wishes...
2007-02-07 08:11:49 · 4 answers · asked by Machine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is a moody drama queen.
2007-02-07 08:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at the end of the day peoples emotions are not like a button. she is possibly still hurting because you both got too close. im surmising here but if you got close as in close she has become personal with you and you have seen parts of her the majority of other people will never do so. she may also had feelings towards that she was unsure of what to do about and scared of loosing friendship. if i was you just give her space or try arrange it were you see her again but as a group so it doesn't look so obvious that you want to catch up with her. it is a gamble getting personal with a close friend and hard for anyone to then be like they use to be. hope this has helped and good luck. take care
2007-02-07 16:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by Deborah B 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Was it a friendship that turned into something else for a brief moment? Those can get ugly. Give her some time. You can't really do more than apologize the way you did. Nice of you to respect her feeling, though. Good luck. Take her out for McNuggets. It is a panacea for the blues.
2007-02-07 16:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by mcnugget 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if she said she wanted to just be friends, but maybe she actually felt more than that. She probably feels rejected, and it will hurt her more to be around you. I think that maybe if you try asking her yourself, maybe you can get a feel for the real reason. If she still refuses, at least you've done all you can to remedy it. You even apologized when really there was wasn't anything to apologize for if the friendship was mutual.
2007-02-07 16:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋