I've tried everything from A-Z to get over my Ex girlfriend, Tried cutting off all ties, tried saying some mean things to her so that she would feel differently about me but nothing works, We broke up about a year and a half ago but still remained friends, but I still Love her and want to be with her, but now she's with someone else.
And because of this I told her I can't be apart of her life anymore and that we should cut off all ties because it's too hard for me, and at first everything was okay but i still thought about her then she'll either call me or text me, it's like she has a hard time letting go too, she's back with the guy she dated before me, they only broke up because he moved away but now he's back, she says she's happy with him and everything, but she knows how I feel about her and that I can't be apart of her life if she's with someone else, does it sound like she still has feelins for me or is it she just can't handle us not speakin to each other.
2007-02-07 07:57:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds as if she enjoys the ego strokes she gets from playing with your emotions. If you want to be loved and respected, then my advice would be is " find another door to knock on,you are knocking on the wrong door", this girl seems to be still immature and has not come to learn on how to value a relationship with anyone. She plays games. Your best bet is to do as you suggested, cut all ties with her. As hard as this may be, by continuing to keep contact with her you are allowing her to mess with your head. She is displaying a total lack of respect for you and for her current boyfriend. Believe me, she sounds to be not worth your time and trouble. Good luck to you!
2007-02-07 08:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally feel that she probably still has feelings for you. If she didn't have feelings for you or didn't care, she wouldn't be persistent in talking to you. Also, the unfortunate thing is that people get used to be around certain people. She may continue to talk to you because she's simply USED to talking to you. I know that sounds harsh, but sometimes that's how people are. If you still love her, you may just need to sit down and talk to her about it. You need to see if she's really with this person because she wants to be with him or is she just filling a void.
2007-02-07 08:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by sws_classic_caramel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take two Flinstone VItimans and call me in the morning. Sorry but it is not that easy. I am 26 years old and still have feelings for my high school sweet heart. If you truley love the person they will never be far from your mind or heart. Sorry. Love Hurts
2007-02-07 08:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by mama01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, it sounds like ur describing my life! i been exactly in ur same shoes. but all u can do is go out, meet new people and dont stay home. when ever u start thinking bout her, txt or call a frend just to start conversation so u get ur mind off her. theres really not a specific thing u can do to stop this but u can help it by trying to go out. go to the gym and let ur pain and anger out. hope this helps.
2007-02-07 08:14:16 · answer #4 · answered by oc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it she wants her cake and eat it to you need to start seeing other people. Maybe you will find someone that loves you just as much as you think you love her.
2007-02-07 08:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by Spacious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just pathetic. Dude, seriously, just stop. Don't text her back, call her back or acknowledge her existence in any way. Eventually she will stop.
2007-02-07 08:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by Fire_God_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to cut all ties, and keep it that way...otherwise buckle up for an endless merry-go-round of misery....hope you make the correct choice.....
2007-02-07 08:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋