My brother discovered sex at a really early age. Lets try 7! And since then he doesn't know what he is supposed to do, and what not to do! He grabs my butt and told my friends and my ex-boyfriend [we were dating at the time my brother told him] that me and my brother had sex! He also grabs other girls butts, and other parts. He almost went to court! He doesn't know the meaning of gay, but he claims he does. My dad and me are really tight and talk about everything and so we told my brother he has to be more smart and respectful with his actions. But he continues to hit on me and my friends! How can I make him stop? I'm tired of this!
2007-02-07 07:54:30 · 8 answers · asked by Hunnie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You don't say how your brother "discovered" sex, but it definitely sounds as if he needs counselling. No child at that age belongs to know about grabbing sex and telling people he had sex with his sister. Was he molested? You really sound have your father and mother seek professional help for him. You also might want to talk to your school guidance counselor. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-02-07 07:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by tersey562 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is not normal. Most 7 year olds don't have any idea what sex is. It seems to me that your brother has been molested. I know that sounds scary, but it is in your brother's best interest to get some help. Speak to your parents about taking him to the doctor. That is the only way this will be dealt with in a manner where he learns that his actions are bad. And if your parents just tell you to stop worrying, go to someone you trust. Teacher, counselor or even a friends mom. You'll be doing everyone a favor.
Take care.
2007-02-07 08:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by Chrystal 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming he's VERY young younger than 10. Doing this kind of behavior needs professional attention. I think he really needs to go into counceling of some sort. Best of luck!
2007-02-07 08:15:45 · answer #3 · answered by Livinka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your brother need a therapist and yesterday? You dad needs to do more then tell him what he should be doing and not doing. I my opinion you brother was abused somewhere and he is acting out on that., He needs real help. You as his sister could press charges on him to force the issue of his need for help if dad and mom can't seem to get their responsibilities together enough to protect you.
I would move to you grandparents house or another family members while your parents work out what is needed to help curve your brothers sexual issues.
Tracylyn S
2007-02-07 08:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by Tracylyn S 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
since your brother continues to hit on you and your girlfriends then you and your girlfriends should give him a mkeover but you should have a few girls hold him down so he can not try and touch the girls in inappropriate areas
2007-02-07 09:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where is the passion,when you needed it most?
Yeah ive had a bad day im taking one down,ive had a bad dayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
2007-02-07 08:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better listen to these people. He needs help or you'll have REAL BIG TROUBLE there!
2007-02-07 08:07:14 · answer #7 · answered by jacquie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
counsiling would help.
2007-02-07 08:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋