My boyfriend gets depressed and mad easily.ANd today I was the one who said "hi" to him first and he said hi and then the rest of the day didnt say anthing to me. Im not sure if hes shy or mad at me because latly I have been a little clingly because we have only been going out 6 days(we are in 7th grade) which leads me to my next problem Im afraid to IM him because if I ask him "r u mad at me?" maybe he wont want to talk to me and break up with me.and I have such stong feelings for him(not love we are to young for that) and I would be depressed if he broke up with me. WHat do I do?IM him or no?Or his he even mad at me?
2007-02-07 07:49:55 · 26 answers · asked by britty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow you are young. well ...... dont im him or ask him if he is mad at you directly . give him some love talk and ask him if somthing is bothering him mentally may be he will tell you if he dont then dont worry about it he will get over it with in a day or two
Ps: do tell him that you are there if he needs someone to talk to
2007-02-07 07:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by mrdeeds_1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well cookie he could be mad or he could just be a jerk. You need to ask him and find out because the longer you let this go on, you're just avoiding the inevitable. Don't IM the next day at school walk up to him and ask him what's wrong. See what he says, if he doesn't want to be with you anymore it's best you find out now. It'll just hurt more later. Good luck hon!
2007-02-07 08:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it cool, make him come to you. One thing guys hate is a clingy over concerned girlfriend. Just wait for him to call you. He was probably worried about a test or thinking about something else today. Trust me and take this with you the rest of your life... Guys are so attracted to independent girls who do not worry about their every move. Guys are guys and they mean exactly what they say and don't say. It is girls who read into everything and make themselves crazy! Just be cool and calm and let him come to you. It will make him wonder why you are not talking to him and he will call you and when he does just call you and he ask what you are doing, just say "oh, just chillin, reading a book or watching tv" Don't let him know that you have been worried about it all day. Go hang out with your girls or something. All women are clingy and insecure but it is the ones who don't show it that gets the boys!! Good luck
2007-02-07 07:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by micah z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all . . .try not to be too clingy with him. . . i know how hard that is, but at that age boys sometimes need a little bit of space. . . maybe message him and ask if anything is bothering him because he seems a little distant to you lately and then he can open up to you if he wants to . . . he may be just stressed about school or family or something else which may appear like he's mad at you when in fact it may not be the case. . . good luck. .. i hope this helps
2007-02-07 07:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by princessmelokia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say straight up "r u mad at me?" that will just get him mad or madder. casually say hi, and start talking about other things. if he doesnt talk like he normally does, then he is probably mad at you. or he might be having some problems at home. ask him if anything is wrong. if he says yes, ask if he wants to talk about it or not. if he says no, he might just not want to tell you or he is telling the truth. whatever he says, dont stay on that subject. if he is done talking about it, you are too. if he talks normally, then he probably just didnt feel like talking today.
btw --- it is probably best not to make him mad at you if he isnt already by being clingy. lay off a little bit.
2007-02-07 07:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by stevie_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is never a bad thing! Talking things out with someone, or trying to help someone through a problem is ALWAYS worth the time it takes. You might, however, just ask him is anything's wrong, rather then asking if it's something you've done.
He may just be having a bad day or so.
2007-02-07 07:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by Winter Paws 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!My name is Jameriah.I want to help you.I think that you should ask him is there any other girl in his life.If he said know and he's telling the truth,you should ask him whats wrong.I he said yes you should dump him.Don't be afraid that he might dump you.But if you are scared,just don't tell him at school speek over the phone.I am so sorry if you and your boyfriend break up.I just want to let you that I am only 8 years old so I hope my itvice works.
2007-02-07 08:03:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey! Your much too young to be worrying so much about some other person. Be selfish, if he doesn't treat you the way you want to be treated he isn't worth your time. IM him if he gets mad, then leave his butt behind you'll find someone much more compatible to your likings. Stop worrying about if he's mad at you, your not supposed to be able to read minds and he shouldn't expect you to! Be happy with yourself because...boys will dissapoint you forever!
2007-02-07 07:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by sarajanicew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he mad at you? Thats a question you need to answer for yourself. 1...does he have a reason to be mad at you? & 2...you need to ask him in order to find out. You can't go around just assuming this type of thing, thats not fair to you or him. Also, you probably shouldn't be going out with him if you don't know much about him.
Quote: "Your never to old to fall in love."
2007-02-07 07:54:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM him if you want. If he breaks up with you for IMing him then it was never meant to be LOL
Seriously, if he is depressed and gets mad easily then maybe you should just end it now because things will probably just end up getting worse.
2007-02-07 07:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by Amaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋