I was on my boyfriends myspace because he wants me to redo his page, his background and everything like that . So I have his password and while I logged in there was a message from his ex-girlfriend saying" I don't know if I'm allowed to talk to you or not :o but I would really like to hear from you. This coming from the girl who tried to wreck our relationship when we first got together 4 years ago. Should I feel threatened by her, I'm just afraid that she'll try to do something to ruin our relationship. Any advice?
2007-02-07 07:46:48 · 7 answers · asked by farmergyrl23 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest with him. Tell him that you saw it, don't delete it. You should base your relationship with him on trust. Don't make it sound like you're accusing him. After all, he wanted you to re-do his myspace and he gave you the password. I doubt he would have done that if he believed there was something on there he'd be "caught at". Go to him, tell him, and ask him what he suggests. I'd let it go after that.
2007-02-07 07:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's his EX for a reason.
Don't get all jealous, it will only make you look bad.
It is actually okay for him to talk to her, you don't have anything to worry about. Your relationship isn't new anymore, I don't think there is anything she can do to ruin it.
Don't do anything that from her point of view could make you seem insecure or "psycho". If she's going onto his myspace page just make sure there are really cute pics of the two of you together on there.
Let your bf know that she left him a message, but do it in a very casual, non-threatening voice. Just, "Oh, hey sweetie, what's her name left a message for you..." Don't even act like you are waiting for an explanation, just smile and change the subject.
The mistake most girls make when their bf is getting attention from other girls is that they suddenly turn into jealous, raving, lunatics. This only drives the guys straight into the other girl's arms. Be cool. Be sweet. Be charming and remind him why he's with you.
2007-02-07 15:56:29 · answer #2 · answered by loves2fly84095 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, from someone who has been down this road......Be aware that this may not have been the first time she has contacted him in 4 years. IF he doesnt want anything to do with her, he will "nip it in the bud" before it gets out of hand. BUT if something is already going on, he will be very angry about it and say that its nothing. Stand your ground and tell him how you feel. Not a shouting match but normal talking. AND from personal experience, myspace is just not a place for couples, married people, ect. Someone always gets hurt.
2007-02-07 15:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by LITTLECOVE 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's afraid to even talk to him on myspace. you have his password and so on, so its not like he's trying to keep secrets from you. it's ok to tell him seeing her on his page freaked yo out a bit. don't overreact - he obviously trusts you. Have confidence!!
2007-02-07 15:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to feel threatened. I would worry if he responded back to her saying he would like to see her again. But, since you've made no mention of that, I wouldn't worry. You can't control what people write to him.
I don't agree with everyone to tell him you saw it. He sent you there to do his page, not read his e-mail. He's going to wonder why you weren't trusting enough that you had to read e-mail he was receiving.
2007-02-07 15:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by Groovy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nall he obviously aint diggin the trick if she saying i dont know if i'm allowed to talk to you. Girl you kool but to him she must be old news
2007-02-07 15:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by eccentric 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
maybe you should talk with HIM about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-07 15:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by stop it 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋