having children is one of the hardest jobs you can do?
2007-02-07 07:24:17 · 31 answers · asked by Jaz 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
just to say i am a mum of 2,
ive been asked this question loads of times its just for your oppinion thanks guys!
2007-02-07 07:42:35 · update #1
Absoloutley...but it is also the most rewarding job that anyone can do, to nuture another human being and make it into a happy adult, there is nothing better than having kids, whether they are your, adopted or step kids, they are a blessing!
2007-02-07 07:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is definitely the hardest job you can do. I have two boys aged 12, and 13 plus two girls aged 19, and 20. The boys are much harder work than the girls. But they do say the first 6 months (20 years) are the hardest. I will not be having any more children, even though they are worth all the hard work, stress, cost, and strech marks.
2007-02-07 15:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Ruby D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I totally agree with you. Have been a single mum for many years and yes its hard. Its a lot easier going to work when you can leave that behind and come home and chill, but with children its 24 hours a day 7 days a week. Dont get me wrong they are the best and loyal friends you will ever have.
2007-02-07 15:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by jane r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To the answerer above -- it might be a privilege to have children, but it's a lot of work too. It is indeed a job, the hardest one I'll ever have. But it's also the most rewarding.
2007-02-07 15:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by Deannaizme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a single mum of two children I would say that there are worse jobs out there. It is hard, but look at the rewards. Children who think you are the best thing since sliced bread!!
And remember, if they don't appreciate you right now, they will (hopefully) be parents themselves one day and realise what it is all about! I am certainly starting to realise what my parents did for me and I am truly grateful.
2007-02-07 16:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by Dirty Blonde 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is the hardest because you don't get paid, nobody thanks you, you never complete the job BUT it's also the greatest job you can do and you shouldn't need any of the above. If you are struggling talk to other mums and dads you are never alone when the kids drive you to despair
2007-02-07 15:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by gaviscon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.
The hours are ridiculous, every child is different, none of them come with an instruction book, there's no set job description, you don't get paid to do it, there's no union to back you up and no-one ever says thanks when you've done a good job.
That said however, it's the most rewarding career you can embark upon and it will last you your whole lifetime.
2007-02-07 15:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not one of the hardest jobs that I have done...its more like the job that I am most devoted to, that forces accountability and responsibility. It has it's challenges, it's rewards--sometimes it's thankless--but there is never too much of a dull moment.
2007-02-07 15:35:23 · answer #8 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is no doubt. It is however very rewarding and lots of fun. The reason it is so hard is that it is 24/7 with no sick days or holidays! Best job I have ever had.
2007-02-07 15:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by mom-knows-best 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh yes it is. i became a step mom when i was 18. i now have a child of my own and i m out numbered during the day my setp son is 3 1/2 and i miss him being 2 it was great now he can be a little hellian. my daughter is 5 months. i love my kids though. i would do anything for them. i love seeing the smiles on their faces. i m 20 now and happier then ever.
2007-02-07 15:35:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋