Ladies, why do I feel as if my lady friend, hoping she will be more, is taking so long to call me back? I called her about three times in the last two day and I still have not heard. Is she just not interested in me. Am I being paranoid. We have known each other for about three months and have dated about a month for your information.
I really would like your opinions. I really like her.
2007-02-07 07:08:48 · 9 answers · asked by Phillip M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
think about the last time you were together , was there anything you may have said or done that would have upset her. Think hard, because something you may not think was big, could mean a big deal to her. Obviously something is going on. try sending her a nice card in the mail, nothing too mushy, but something to tell her you are thinking of her and try to wait on her to call.
2007-02-07 07:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've *generally* found (personal experience definitely included) that usually when somebody is taking awhile to call back, it's because they're not as into you as you are into them. It's not a hard and fast rule, but that's really the only reason why I don't respond promptly to calls or emails. She could be going through a busy time, or maybe she's just not always as quick to call people back. Probably 9 times out of 10, though, it's because they aren't sure that they're ready to be as serious as you are. good luck!
2007-02-07 15:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by courtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe her phone is broken or maybe she doesn't want to talk to you. Most of the time when you don't get a call back is because the person doesn't want you or is with someone else. I would just give her an opportunity to call me back and if she doesn't just forget about her.
2007-02-07 15:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by sweet p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't run behind her calling her, it makes you look desperate and if it's one thing that turns a girl off is when guys come off looking desperate and needy, just try to chill and relax and let her call you she probably enjoys the attention your giving her and feeds off of it. trust me when she sees your not calling her constantly she's gonna wonder what's up and why haven't you called and then that 's when you turn the tables on her, don't answer the phone every time she calls make it look like your busy then that's when you've got her trust me!
2007-02-07 15:16:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really love her obviously. Just give her a little space and she'll talk to you... she's probably just been busy. You are being a tiny bit paranoid
2007-02-07 15:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by looziegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she does not care as much as you do. I always return calls to by bf as soon as I can and he's the same way.
2007-02-07 15:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you about it if you email me at babygurlshell_313@yahoo.com ok i want talk to you i mixed with white in black about your age
2007-02-07 15:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by Rachelle M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
stop calling her maybe when you stop calling her she will start to call you
2007-02-07 15:14:31 · answer #8 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to tell you.... Do you like her???? If you like her then go for it...
2007-02-07 15:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by babyhazel11217 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋