I've tried everything from A-Z to get over my Ex girlfriend, Tried cutting off all ties, tried saying some mean things to her so that she would feel differently about me but nothing works, We broke up about a year and a half ago but still remained friends, but I still Love her and want to be with her, but now she's with someone else.
And because of this I told her I can't be apart of her life anymore and that we should cut off all ties because it's too hard for me, and at first everything was okay but i still thought about her then she'll either call me or text me, it's like she has a hard time letting go too, she's back with the guy she dated before me, they only broke up because he moved away but now he's back, she says she's happy with him and everything, but she knows how I feel about her and that I can't be apart of her life if she's with someone else, does it sound like she still has feelins for me or is it she just can't handle us not speakin to each other(10 points best A.)
2007-02-07 07:08:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im going to be strait with you on this one...Your being held as a back up. She is using your feelings in a totally selfish way. The way it is for her right now is she has her cake but if the cake dissapears she will be able to fall back on the fact that the pie is still there. Um the pie being you. I can tell you this because im in the same situation as you and as much as it sucks that is the harsh reality. First off let me tell you she doesnt love you. Second you cant make her love you. Third the only thing you can do is focus on you, improve yourself. Read a book lift a weight (No not a beer) and make your self and your life better. It is the only way to get her back and if she doesnt come back oh well youll see in time that your better than her anyway.
2007-02-08 17:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by mckinlyjoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you guys break up?
Who broke it off? Was it mutual?
Seems like you are being used.
You are not good enough for her to take you seriously for a long term relationship but you are such a good a s s kisser that she is terrrified if things don't work out with her better man that she will have lost her one sure fountain of Validation.
After all that is what you are to her you validate that she indeed is someone sooooo special that she has you wrapped around her finger dreaming of her day in and day out...
all the while she getting f*cked by her current boyfriend but she is still your dream girl...
2007-02-07 07:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by Willie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you what I would do is get back with her and treat her a lot differently than what you have done so far. Treat her Like you and her are the only 2 people on Earth. She might like that.
2007-02-07 07:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear you i have the same problem with my ex we work together but he's with his baby mother. sometimes it's like it's just the timing is all off. i think she loves you she just torn. if she anything like me she becomes friends with her boyfriends and that makes it even harder when breakin up cause you so use to confiding in that person and is hard to break that. if she really loves you then it won't work with the other guy and she'll be back to you in no time.
2007-02-07 07:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by **Taira** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AFTER PUTTING (10 points best A.) IT KINDA SOUNDS LIKE YOUR FAKING IT BUT EITHER WAY YOULL BE OKAY YOU GUYS WILL GET BACK TOGETHER FIND OUT WHY SHE DIDNOT LIKE AND IF IT DOES NOT CAUSE TO MUCH PAIN CHANGE IT SHE BEGIN TO LIKE YOU AGAIN
TRUST IN GOD
2007-02-07 07:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then it sounds like you need to get back with her.
2007-02-07 07:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by Jay-V-Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋