When I went to sleep last night I was laying next to my husband is our nice beautiful king sized bed. When I woke up this morning I felt very strange. All of my clothes were off and my body was being massaged by cold hands that didn't feel like my husband's. When I turned over to see what was going on my father in law was the one who was in bed with me!! He was massaging my naked body and he was naked as well. What makes it even worst is that my husband was standing over in the corner video taping the entire incident. I was mortified. I slapped my father in law, covered my naked body and demanded to know what was going on. My father in law told me that I looked so peaceful resting, that he wanted to give me a massage to make sure I was even more relaxed. I started yelling and screaming and demanded that they both get out of the house. My husband told me that I was acting like a fool. He said that this is normal behavior and that fathers and son's do this all the time????
2007-02-07 07:05:11 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Pack your bags, leave and file for a divorce! I wouldn't stay another second with the two of those perverted, mentally unstable sex offenders. Let your husbands father massage his son and video tape that! They deserve each other...not you.
2007-02-07 07:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by Arleen J 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Uh, I'm sorry but only SICK father's and son's would do that and think it was normal. I'd call it rape and the video without your knowledge and consent is unlawful too. If you didn't want to be with your husband after this (I don't know, some women are dumb and would stick around anyway) But, if you were wise, you'd go get an attorney and also file a police report. A restraining order is also highly recommended. If you don't have kids, could you imagine what they would do to them while they lay sleeping?
2007-02-07 07:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by JADE D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to file for a divorce from your husband charge you father in law with rape and your husband to for that matter what type of people do things like that I'm sorry this happened to you but you need to call the police and tell what happened That's just down right weird s*it if I must say so myself they are lucky to have just gotten away with you yelling because I would be in jail for double homicide if it were me no man that loves his wife and RESPECT her would allow another man in their bed not even his father girl friend you are going to need a lot of mental help after this one.
2007-02-07 07:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by Spacious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you get too hasty, try to calm down and process what just happened. Then have a conversation with your husband and his father why they would do such things. It's not like your father in law is seeing a woman naked for the first time in his life, so maybe he is just more comfortable with woman that you are used to.
Personally, I think your husband is nuts letting his father see you and actually massage you while he videotapes the whole thing. Maybe that's his fetish, who knows. You gotta confront him with this. Meanwhile, try to stay away from that bed!
2007-02-07 07:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by CBRRider 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That is some funky ****. The only thinng I'm wondering is.. if they did anything to you in your sleep, how did you not notice/wake up? But on that note, maybe they didn't do anything. It's either some really bizarre prank, or something else is going on. If you're no chill with any of that, just let them know you're not down for that kinky ****.
Oh and the fact that they were videotaping it makes it much weirder
2007-02-07 07:10:42 · answer #5 · answered by Alex 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
This is freaky, but you can put this tape on the internet, show a preveiw, and charge $5 to watch the whole thing, and then you your husband and his dad will have a larger house in no time!!!
2007-02-07 13:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by eastcoastdebra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...well...i'm not sure what to say...but to be honest, if this was me.. i'd probably leave my husband. but if you want to make it work, then you can. Try therapy. Your husband and father-in-law need help, no offense. That is NOT typical for fathers and sons to do. and i, as a female, apologize that you had to go through something as degrading as that. good luck and i'll pray for your family, if you dont mind.
2007-02-07 07:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
your Right to do what you did. it sounds like your husband has been abused by his dad...i think you need to get checked out i don't know it for sure but you need to know if you were raped or not.. I'm sorry that you have to go though this but you need to take action now and get help and don't let your husband back in the house till he seeks help.. praying for you...
2007-02-07 07:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by tlcoufan 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hi,
your husband is wrong that is not normal for any family. pack your things and leave the house go back home to you mother and father. and get a divorce, make sure that you get those tapes for your protection. get out while you can.
2007-02-07 07:11:07 · answer #9 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
thats kind of weird ...this is the 1st time i;ve read something like that...oh well anyways if i were u i would defenetly get out of there and well ur husband is not a good man for doing that stupid ****....also go and check urself what if they did something bad to u while u were knocked out...well yeah get them out of ur life!
2007-02-07 07:22:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋