My bf has drifted away and stopped hanging out and talking which is fine but i don't GET IT!!! I was always super nice to him and did what i thought he wanted me to and never got mad at him adn was always there for him and now i feel hurt cuz i took our relationship seriously and i just feel used....how can a feel better? i feel worthless
2007-02-07 07:03:48 · 8 answers · asked by shine_on 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your not worthless. He is. He didn't appriciate what you did for him and thats his own dang fault. Find someone that will like every little thing you do. You sound like your a sweet girl so just keep your chin up and find someone who cares about you just as you care about them. Good Luck Darlin
2007-02-07 07:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just look at it as a lesson in life well learned. A guy will come along before long, & you two will enter into a relationship that you both take seriously. Be yourself this time & getting angry, upset, etc. are all normal reactions to things, so show the human side of yourself & don't be afraid. Please!!! Do not allow this ex b/f to make you feel worthless because no one is worth all that. I know your heart is broken but in time you'll be able to put it all behind you. Feel better soon by getting out with family & friends. As the saying goes: The right one will come along when you're not expecting it or not looking. It will happen just have faith. If & I say "if" the ex b/f comes around or contacts you, tell him that you've moved on & suggets he does too. Be strong when doing so!!!! Best of luck!!!
2007-02-07 15:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put him in the past and chalk it up as a learning experience. Next relationship be yourself, if you disagree then disagree, men like challenges too, maybe he found the fact that you were so agreeable a turn off. It's a shame that you tried so hard only to be let down but that just another reason why you should always be yourself.
Call a girlfriend, get done up, go out and have a great time, the hurt will fade and you'll be smarter because of it.
2007-02-07 15:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by tonafun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's some superglue.....it's called "learning a lesson". The lesson is:
You can put your energy and effort into a relationship, but some guy's just don't appreciate it. It shouldn't hurt you because you did your best (unfortunately it was wasted). It would hurt them more, because they'll never find a woman as "good" as you. So they will look back and have alot of regrets in life (I should have stuck with her).
So, now you can go and find a guy that appreciates your efforts (cause you know what you offer up front). Then you'll have the last laugh, because you'll have a "keeper".
Go get em!!
2007-02-07 15:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same boat as you, i did everything for my ex boyfriend, then he drifted away then told me he was sorry and that he cared for me then he dumped me 3 days later. he broke my heart, many people said that i was too good for him. although its hard right now i would keep telling yourself this, this is what i did and it has helped some what, but i know its really hard to get over a person when you give them your heart. i know!!! but if he really cared for you he wouldn't of hurt you like this. he wasn't worth it, save your time and love for someone who will treat you right.hope things work out for you, don't feel worthless your Not !!! one day he'll see the mistake he made, but it will be too late.
2007-02-07 15:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmpm have no ideal but sorry to hear your current situation
2007-02-07 15:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to feel better is to learn from it and move on, only by finding the strengh in yourself will you help yourself to move on.
2007-02-07 15:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just butt out of his life and leave him alone
2007-02-07 15:08:09 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Kayla 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋