Why does my boyfriend tell me that another woman is hot?

Question

When me and my boyfriend are out in public he points out alot of women that he thinks are hot to him. Is he trying to make me jealous? Why?

Answer 1

Maybe he thinks you are secure enough that just because he thinks they are hot - he is still with you. If he acts like this in front of you, odds are better he's not acting any different without you. Just looking - never touching. Take it as a compliment he is secure in the relationship. Point out some guys you think are hot. If it's a two way street - it's a good start to a strong relationship.

Answer 2

It COULD be that he feels comfortable enough with you to tell you that another female is hot. Do you not trust him?

I'm not writing that to try and make you feel guilty, but that is the crux. If he is making comments like that, and you think he might decide to pursue one, then there is a trust issue.

I have made a comment or two regarding women I thought were hot to my wife, but she knows I'm not going anywhere, nor do I want to go anywhere.

Of course, he could just be a wannabe "player" type who will chase after them, or maybe he is dropping hints to you about what he likes in an effort to change you. If either of these suggestions is the case, find someone new.

I know, that wasn't that helpful. I'm in need of more coffee.

Answer 3

He does not respect you. And If It was me he would have been slapped on the spot. That is very disrespect to you. Should have told him go be with her then. He can think what he want because it is not out loud. You need to tell him about his self because he do not want you saying guys look good, and if so he don't care so move on

Answer 4

I think that's rude and so disrespectful of him to do that.......Unless you ask him if he thinks a particular girl is hot ...He should be making you feel like your the hottest lady he's seen and proud to have you on his arm and loves to show you off......Yes, he is trying to make you jealous because he has a low self-esteem........

Answer 5

what does he say when you ask him?

sounds to me he is too immature for a relationship!

all your life you will see peolple who are attractive. but it is rude and immature to comment on it all the time-especially to your mate.

tell him that you are not one of his buddies and to keep that stuff among the guys. tell him you deserve to be made felt special by him and that you are the only women that matters to him. otehrwise get out of the relationship.

this guy has no game at all. i would consider a better guy

Answer 6

No he isn't..don't be so immature.

Attraction is a human charactertic. You can't tell me you don't look..He is just being honest. Maybe you should be too.

If you are afraid you will loose him, then you need to look into yourself and wonder why your self confidence is so low and figure out how to fix it.

Men are not attracted to just beautiful woman...Its how they walk with their head held high and with great confidence

Answer 7

I think he does it for your reaction...and if he continues to do so over your protests you should dump him,. since he'd be proving he doesn't care about how you feel.
But....if you must continue with him...point out all the guys YOU think are hot, and see how much he likes it.

Answer 8

He may not feel you are interested in him and wants to see your reaction. Don't fret he's with you. I may look at an awesome car on the street and say I'd love to drive that, it doesn't mean I'm rushing to the dealership to buy it.

Answer 9

You should try turning it around on him, and do the same thing, Or even worst point to any guy and say "I bet he's got a bigger pecker than yours". See how he likes it.

Answer 10

did you ever think that maybe they are wearing something that he thinks is hot and that you never do. check out what the hot ones have on and how they look and see if you can change something.