i dont know what to do, ask him?

Question

theres this boy, same one as before
i cant keep my mind off of him! hes great, like i said, he's always there for me and we flirt all the time when his girlfriends not around, but everytime she is he always seems upset.
she's cheated on him and i told him he desreves someone better, he says he's not sure. and ive told him i liked him and we tell each other everything but it seems like theres something he's always heald back from me. and everytime we talk lately he seems to be sad so i ask why and he just says "forget it, you dont care" but i really really do. and i want to hang out with him, just me and him. but i donno how his gf and my best friend would react, or my ex, who is friends with him.


i just remember 1 time in the hallway we were late and i hugged him good bye in the halls then our friend came by whipsers kinda loud "are you 2 goin out" he said no then out friend-"do u like her" and he said kinda. but is it to late?

Answer 1

I'm taking two points and giving Joe the thumb's up....l8ta

Answer 2

wow, tough situation. if i were you, id leave him alone for a little bit, dont pressure him or anyhting. theres must be something keeping himw ith his current girlfriend and thats something that you are not going to be able to change right now. guys like a littel bit of mystery...sooo, if you keep telling him that you like him, theres no mystery. leave him alone, and still be nice to him and everything, but hold back on the flirting a bit. he'll be confused by this, but thats good cause he'll probably start working to gain your attention again. once he realizes that hes actually fighting to get you back, he may realize that you two are better off together than his current girlfriend, and when he does start giving you more attention, have a seioous conversation with him, but keep some mystery in there. like, i think that we would be a great pair, dont say that you've liked him for a really long time or anyhting... just keep in simple. he'll get your point and hopefully he'll cheer up when hes got you by his side instead of the other girl.

good luck and go get him!!

Answer 3

first its never to late
this has happened to me before and this is what I did ...
go out with a big group of friends (my friend went bowling with 10 friends)and invite the guy you like. Then pull him away for a few minutes i brought my guy right out side by the doors. make sure the rest of your group cant see you. say some thing like "were have you been latly" he'll probobly be like what then you say"its like we've been in two diferent worlds latly".
Than wait for his answer and say something like "ive always wanted to do this" then kiss him. i think since he already has a gf the cheek is best but when my friend did this the guy move his face so he kissed her on the lips. but after kissing him everything else should fall into place

this has worked for my friends and it will definatly work for you!!!

Answer 4

It is not too late. You love this guy and he is in a lot of pain as his gf betrayed him. He knows logically that he deserves better, but he still has unresolved issues either in his heart or with this gf. Your interaction with him should be a private as possible as the gossip belittles his feelings, your feelings and makes the whole issue public.

Answer 5

I think that he likes u I think u should tell him again how u feel and tell him to give u one chance so that he can see how u really are but if he doesn't want to then he is not the right person for u. U deserve someone better than him

Answer 6

O NO! High School drama...I can't help you there. Hey babe, you're young, don't worry about it, what you gonna do when you graduate? Exactly my point, leave high school guys alone, their all snots and sluts.