The rich black guy called last night and like whats to take me out , what should I wear, urban wear or my good stuff. Should I like have my bf Becky tail us. He has security, but I dont know if they are coming too.
2007-02-07 06:41:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I wouldnt date you.
2007-02-07 08:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I think you should watch your wording. One thing guys in general don't like is someone putting on a facade, trying to be something that they are not. Secondly, you should be yourself. Why do need you need security? As long as you have your cell and the ladie's room you r okay. If you don't trust him, you probably shouldn't be going in the first place. Last, but not least give him a call and see if you should dress informal or formal for the date. According to where you are going, if informal then maybe some cute jeans with a nice casual dressy shirt and some heels with the accessories to match. If formal or a lil dressy, try some nice slacks and cute shirt with heels or a nice skirt with a cute top and heels, with the right accessories. Red and black are nice colors to put together for an evening out.
2007-02-07 06:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by keepin it real 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you choose your outfit based on the guy's color? That smacks of pandering racism. Just wear what you feel comfortable in and be yourself. Otherwise, he isn't worth it, rich or not.
As for tailing you, that is lame and sounds incredibly immature. Seriously, are you old enough to date?
2007-02-07 08:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are only into him for his money. He will see through that eventually and kick you to the curb. You don't need to say "The rich black guy". All you need to say is "I have a date and don't know what to wear." You sound like a racist and if that is how you are you need to not go out with him.
2007-02-07 07:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself and him a favor and decline. You are not the type of woman that he would want to date. You are very close-minded and you probably only gave him your number, because he was rich. FYI he is the one that probably needs someone to tail him, and what is urban wear?
2007-02-07 06:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by pretty_as_me 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever try to impress somebody by changing your look. Wear what you normally wear (he probably thinks you're cute already). I wouldn't have a friend tail you but have her call and check in on you every once in a while.
2007-02-07 06:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Should he be freaking out that he called a white girl? He asked you out because he liked what he saw. Be yourself.
2007-02-07 07:51:48 · answer #7 · answered by Tee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF? Why do you assume that because he is black that you have to dress a certain way. Black men are no different than any other men, they like for the women to look nice. If you aren't sure what to wear, why don't you ask him what his plans are and dress accordingly.
2007-02-07 06:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by juicie813 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your an idiot. If you must refer to him as "the black guy" maybe you shouldn't date him. Loser
2007-02-08 07:10:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress yourself.. thats what he wants. that and any white girl he can find. beware. most black dudes with security are jokes.
2007-02-07 06:45:05 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋