Just because I won't break things off with my new boyfriend who I have been dating in secret for quite some time and now we are expecting my brother tried to kill me. Got a restraining order against him and now my sisters are mad at me they claim I am trying to tear the family apart.
2007-02-07 06:39:59 · 8 answers · asked by Sexie Gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are your sisters mad at you. You didn't do anything wrong. You have an obligation to that baby you are carrying. Your brother was in the wrong. In time your sisters will find out what really happened and then they can begin to blame the real bad apple. Until then don't worry about them. If they don't care enough to get the real story before passing judgment who needs them.
2007-02-07 10:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jerrie's Daddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your brother seems more than a little overprotective in my book. But he may have been wondering what the **** you were doing let your new man sleep with you and get you pregnant. He may be wondering just why he never met this man until now.
As for your sisters do they know what happened between you and your brother? Do they know that he went psycho on you? If not it would be wise to tell them exactly what happened. Then maybe they will stop blaming you and put the blame where it belongs.
Also what do your parents say about this situation? Do they even know what has been going on. I hope for everyone's sack you know what you are doing. I personally wouldn't let any man come between me and my family. No man is that important.
2007-02-07 18:07:08 · answer #2 · answered by RoiLynn T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't back down on this. Your sisters may be mad at you but you did what you had to do. I were right not to give into your brother's demands. You are obviously not a child and your brother has no right to try and run your life.
I have to wonder do your sisters know what your brother did. If not maybe you should tell them. Then they will be able to put the blame where it belongs.
2007-02-07 18:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by Babie Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care if it was a brother or friend you had to put a restraining order against. If you have to protect yourself, protect yourself. If your sisters don't understand the need for a r.o. then to hell with them. You have yourself and your baby to worry about. If you don't feel safe around your sisters, don't have them over either. Good luck.
2007-02-07 14:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by Vasilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are your parents in all this or are you over 18.
Your brother was wrong and has to pay the consequences...but what is it about your new boyfriend that would cause him to act this way.
Is your new boyfriend worth coming between you and the rest of your family.
These are questions only you can answer.
2007-02-07 14:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably your brother is wondering how his "Sexi Gal" sister got pregnant...and it pisses him off. If the guy who got you that way was good enough for you to allow inside then your brother probably thinks that you should have been proud enough of your family to introduce the guy to them.
2007-02-07 14:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As always we don't know the whole story but by going by what you have said you did the right thing.
2007-02-07 14:45:55 · answer #7 · answered by cowboybronco01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg..im in a similar situation...except not that bad!
move away or something!
2007-02-07 14:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋