Me and my bf broke up because of his infrequent calling, he's on MSN (where I normally am most nights) of course, I want him to want me, should I go online and now talk to him or should I stay offline and make him wonder where I am?
What's the best approach?! If a girl would use one of these approaches to make you want her, which one should she use?!
Thanks
2007-02-07 06:39:34 · 19 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay offline and let him wonder what you're doing. Seeing you online isn't intriguing... imagining you out having a great time is better. Don't be readily available.
2007-02-07 06:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jennifer, you broke with your bf because of his infrequent calling. Obviously the guy is not too much interested in you or he would be calling you to see how you were and to make up. If he has not done this, what makes you think that he will be happy to hear from you now and talk to online and even SEE you ( I hope you do not mean in your Birthday suit). Do not cheapen yourself for a man that does not seem interested. I think that if he is not calling you, he obviously has other plans and is not interested. Get yourself off the computer and think of something worthwhile to do with your time. Join the gym, get a part-time job, start a new hobby, read a good book or even volunteer at a hospital,or community center..do anything that will keep you active and where you can and will meet lots of new people.. People that will be interested in you and who knows maybe even a smart young man that will give you more than just a passing interest. There is no love lost in infrequent calling.. Get someone that calls you and wants to be with you and talk to you and is interested in you. Good luck.
2007-02-07 14:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I realize you want to get back together with him, however; you have to ask yourself whether or not you two broke up over a really stupid reason or something very important. If it was stupid then maybe go online and chat nicely with him, but don't plead about how you want him back. If the calling you think was a serious matter, then I would stay apart and make yourself invisible to him. Let time heal the wounds and find a new boyfriend.
2007-02-07 14:46:56 · answer #3 · answered by ambr95012 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, I know you want him to want you but if your thinking of getting back together what broke you two up the 1st time will ultimately break you up again. But I know your not going to listen to that and go ahead and make contact anyway. So here's what you do. Go on line and talk to other people(preferably guys) but ignore him for a little while. Make sure he knows your on line and sees you there. If he still cares for you, he will get jealous and I know he'll come a knock'in' on your door, wanting to get back together. Give it a little time though. Sometimes people need to lose something in order to see how precious it really was to them in the first place. Hope this helps.
2007-02-07 14:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by Polaco B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um... if he didn't want you in person or on the phone, he is not going to want you online. live your life. be outgoing, friendly, happy, and fun, and make him want to be with you because you are happy without him .don't obsess and try to make yourself feel better by thinking that your little online on-again off-again scheme is going to tear him up inside. it's not. and you're just wasting your time. if he found out you were caring so much about what he saw of you on MSN - he would laugh at you. get over him.
2007-02-07 14:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him see you online. When he Messages you just don't answer. He will be wondering who you are talking to and more than likely be getting jealous so he will want to get back. So be patient and it will probably end in ur favor
2007-02-07 14:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by andyramvzb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be with him anymore, then why play the game? If he is the one who broke up with you, then why play the game? Cut it loose and let yourself find someone new!
2007-02-07 14:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by vapeaceout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants you I don't think he would have broken up with you. Just do what you want, don't go online just because he's on just do your own thing and don't even bother with him!! move on!
2007-02-07 14:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by ♥AMO♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would continue going on line, but change your screen name or set it up so he won't see you. That way you feel free to say what you want to say w/o him knowing it.
2007-02-07 14:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by icom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont talk to him, you broke up now its time to move on
2007-02-07 14:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by msX 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋