Should i stalk this guy?
there is this guy that works with me ad he is a complete cutie-he talks with me alot and the only time i see him is 2 days at work-well i go to a community college and i just found out he goes there-funny i see everyone i dont want to see but him-i know his major and where he might have a class so should i try to see him without him noticing me?
2007-02-07 06:04:47 · 22 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
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2007-02-07 06:08:34 · update #1
Uh, no. That is illegal.
How about actually walking up to him and *gasp* having a conversation?!
2007-02-07 08:16:28 · answer #1 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men do! the single's that say they don't are likely lieing! My boyfriend admitted to stalking my profile commonly used for 6 months previously he even spoke to me! also, I stay with 3 guy roommates and they do all of it the time, sorting out the present pictures, modern-day 'likes' etc. no longer lots of them might want to admit it in spite of the undeniable fact that lol
2016-10-17 05:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by latassa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa girl! You need to take a chill! How about you ask him at work what days he is out at the college and if they are the same as yours say to him, "Want to get together for (lunch, dinner, coffee, or whatever) between classes sometime ?" Or 'casually' bump into him (not literally) in the hall after one of his classes, and say, "I attend this college too, would you like to get together for [insert whatever] sometime?" If he says yes, then set up a date. Yes, on a date he will notice you and you won't have to chase him around hiding behind bushes and getting a mark on your criminal record.
2007-02-07 08:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sure. You just go hide behind a plant and move with it as he moves, just like the cartoon characters!!!!!!.....NO you shouldnt stalk him lol. Would if he catches you? I dont think he'd be too interested then...more like scared. Be mature about it, go up to him next time you see him and say ''hey I think youre really handsome/cute ....'' and bla bla bla Go from there. I know its hard for girls to be the ones to go up to a guy but if youre talking about him here on yahoo, chances are, you think he's worth it so go on!
2007-02-07 06:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That really is kinda creepy (as everyone else has said). After I left my ex, he would do that to me - show up where he knew I'd be yet remain out of eyesight (at least mine). If you talk with him a lot, yet he doesn't ask you out or whatever, how about you make that suggestion rather than play hide and seek.
2007-02-07 06:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember the Golden Rule.
If this relationship has any chance, he must feel attracted to you also. Would you want to be treated that way by him? No.
If he is attracted to you, then ask him to go bowling or shoot some pool. Take a "rain check" if he wants time.
When you act like a mosquito, it's easy to see all you really want is to suck blood.
2007-02-07 06:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by Happy Camper 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"he talks with me alot" and "the only time i see him is 2 days at work" ...these are 2 phrases in your explanation that you don't seem to absorb, understand or reflect upon. If he sees you alot, and yet doesn't extend that time with a date, or lunch or suggestions.. then, really why pursue what doesn't want you?
2007-02-07 06:08:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
***** is you crazy you don't go around stalking guys that's how you go to jail I'm just helping you out girl
2007-02-07 06:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by Paradise M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he talks with you ask him out for coffee or a drink after work. I've always accepted invitations from women!
2007-02-07 06:16:55 · answer #9 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ew, no. That's just creepy and 90% of the time you're found out and he'll just be freaked out and he might persue legal action against you.
2007-02-07 06:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by Mimblewimble 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋