Its just this guy is really mean and strict with everyone else and only winks at me, and says things like he knows i like him and he goes on about how i've seen his nice side. is he wrong to say these things?
2007-02-07 05:55:49 · 12 answers · asked by Rosa-Aria D 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
im a student, but my teacher always winks at me and my best friend. he doesnt want what you think... hes just being friendly. dont talk to him about it, just whenever he winks at you, give him a dirty look. it works for me! lol
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2007-02-07 06:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by babiibrownie818 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is he touching you? Is he asking you to stay after and do weird things? If not, he is just talking. He probably feels a connection to you that he doesn't feel to others. I would say that until it becomes an actual THING you should just be nice and move on. There is no need to make a stink about something that is most likely nothing.
Please keep in mind that if you report him or make a fuss over this you will ruin his career. Is he really doing something so wrong? This is a wink and a statement. Neither is wrong or illegal. Many people consider a wink akin to a wave and "hello" or something. Tread very carefully and consider all the implications of your actions.
2007-02-07 08:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the wink. Some people wink and it is simply an indication of understanding, with no sexual connotation. Sometimes, though, a wink can be considered flirting. You are the best person to decide whether you think this professor's conduct is inappropriate. If you feel it's necessary, tell him to stop and/or report him to the administration.
2007-02-07 18:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your situation, yes. He is going beyond the range of acceptable behavior for a teacher, because it is obvious from what he's said to you that his meaning in winking is too personal and too focused on you. On the other hand, there are some situations where an occasional, impersonal wink of understanding is OK, as long as it isn't limited to one student all the time.
2007-02-07 06:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by TitoBob 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course it is wrong for him to do that. Even if he wasn't your teacher, but even more so because of that. I think you should say something to him about it if you feel comfortable enough to do so. If not, I would go to the school office and tell someone there. Another good thing to do is to try and get him on type saying those things to you or at least try to get someone to hear him. That way it won't be your word against his. Now, yes, typing someone is tricky, because in some state it is against the law, but I feel that will only come in play if you have to go to court or something. But for sure, you should do something to get this to stop and soon.
2007-02-07 06:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by Rocks#1Fan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've found that the only time women object to come ons anywhere is under two circumstances. 1, they told the guy they have someone and the guy doesn't get the message, or 2, the guy isn't cute. If you feel uncomfortable, let him know. If he keeps on, tell him you're willing to do something about it.
2007-02-07 05:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by irie.girl_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a touch pleasant wink is nice even though it sounds like this guy may be going a touch too far, except you're in basic terms misinterpreting his which potential. If I were you. i'd beware of him and if it retains or you quite imagine he is going too far then communicate inclusive of your education counselor about it.....it ought to probably be that he potential not something by technique of it and should be made conscious of it devoid of causing an uproar. .
2016-11-26 00:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I it completly wrong. The school board and Principal should be informed of his behaivor. If a teacher had done that to me I would tell everyone I could including my parents of course. Also having other students who see this bad behaivor should be used as witnesses in case the school board and Principal start to side together.
2007-02-07 06:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my case, it is VERY inappropriate! I'm a high school teacher, and the LAST person I wanna wink at is a high school chick!
2007-02-07 06:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is most def. is wrong to say these things...you should tell that you dont like the things that he says. If you dont like it and he keep doing it, you could report it. Its just how you feel about the situation
2007-02-07 06:00:32 · answer #10 · answered by CoyaBug 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋