i have never been asked out.....and all the guys i've liked ask my friends out.....is there something wrong with me?!? it kills me inside to know that i am almost the only girl thats never had a bf in my school.....im not ugly and any boys that do like me never ask me out! i am really confused........maybe they dont like me...aybe they are just beinng exrta friendly who nos but any explinations?
2007-02-07 05:48:48 · 5 answers · asked by K-LA 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I was in school, I had the same situation...now that I am in my 30's, I have a hard time keeping them away!! (I am happily engaged...)...some of my old friends (guys) that I run in to every now and then will say that they had the biggest crush on me in school, but were intimidated by me...because I was quiet...(total opposite now..), they were afraid that I didn't like them!! So, don't be in a huge hurry to be like everyone else....the right guy will come along....
2007-02-07 05:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a nice gal, maybe the boys see you as a mate at the moment. My friend went through a similar thing, she didn't have a bf not because there was something wrong with her, but because everyone loved her 'cause she's a great friend. All thats left to do is maybe add a hint of flirting to the personality...just show confidence and boys will notice you. Don't worry, you will get a bf and then it will be special, rather than just trying to get one because everyone else has one. Someone who truly sees your beauty is worth the wait!
2007-02-07 13:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by thinkin2myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd need more info. I do know that its hard to find someone no matter how old you are and boys are difficult to figure out because they are still deeply affected by social fear and social pressure. Even though it may feel like it, you're not the only one who has never had a boyfriend. many girls are willing to compromise themselves to get a boy through drugs or sex and its not worth it in the end. Do yourself a favor and stop comparing yourself to the others. You are you and can persue your life better without the added pressure of trying to keep up.
College is WAY better for socializing so don't worry, it gets better after highschool.
2007-02-07 13:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by Dawnmarie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it so much, you'll have your moment just like your friends are having theirs. Don't rush it because you could end up with someone who belongs on the curb when the trash truck pulls up. Sometimes we all need some self improvement which helps us to be better.
2007-02-07 13:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop worrying u have ur whole life ahead of u to meet many guys who u'll date and what not. just be patient!
2007-02-07 13:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by ipfreely91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋