So my friend called me one night sayin my bf was plannin on breakin up with me. So i was on the phone wit my friend. Then my bf called.(understand, he's a "playa" and this all happened bout a 2 months ago) so i put my friend on hold and started talkin to him, he was bein all annoying and drunk sounding[later on i found out he was] and we got in an argument so i just stopped talkin to him.
later on the next day my bf called my friend and said "oh i broke up wit her, over email, but i didnt mean to cuz i was drunk. she told me what he said and i was CRUSHED! i thought things could work out but it didnt, and i know he was a "playa" but it hurt, and now i cant help but to judge people who even look like him, and i dont want it to stay that way. so the other night, last weekend. i called him wantin to stay friends, but he just went off bout his new gf and buggin me about if i had a new bf, i didnt. i asked y he wanted to know. no answer. but i just wanna stay friends with him, but idk how.
2007-02-07 05:43:25 · 8 answers · asked by .:xXx:. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't even think that you should stay friends with him
obviously he hurt you and i dont think you should go out with someone that you know is a "playa"
2007-02-07 05:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by PUTTIN' TANG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plz girl, this will never work. He's goin to think that he can just walk all over u when he feel like it. He thinks that u hav no one else in ur favor show him he's wrong, I'm sure u r a pretty young lady and can find any other guy much better than he is. If u stay his friend he might try 2 use u for what ever reason cus he knows ur try'n 2 b a good friend 2 him and if he ly'd about how he broke up with u he'll lie about anything!!!!! Plz girl u can do better (HE'S A FAKE) cus a real playa dn't hav 2 lie about nuthin!
2007-02-07 13:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lovin Life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you were crushed, and you were upset. But someone like this...doesn't deserve to...."accept" and "keep" your friendship. After all, this guy is a playa..... (Seems to me like he treats girls as tools). And breaking up OVER EMAIL? Wow, no offense, but that is just plain PaTheTiC.
If he keeps bugging you about a new boyfriend and "crushed" you. Why should you stay friends?
If you must stay friends, i cannot stop you, But think twice.
Hmm...You should tell him openly how you feel and tell him that you wanna stay friends.
Best of luck,
--Tamino
2007-02-07 13:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by Tamino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the freindship will not work out. Maybe down the road more but right now is not good.
2007-02-07 13:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by rain9439 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still like him there might be a little problem. but if you can live with him dating other people then it can work.
2007-02-07 13:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by Bina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds impossible to me. I wouldn't even try to be friends with him, cause he's acting like a jerk. If i were you, i would try to forget about him, cause obviosly he has already forgotten about you.
2007-02-07 13:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by mekaylahall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes stay friends with him its better to gain a friend than to loose one
2007-02-07 13:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by krazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to stay friends with a loser like that?!
2007-02-07 13:46:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kate, the one and only 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋