2007-02-07 05:40:53 · 8 answers · asked by zoila v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
NO. The child can know his or her father without you having to be in a relationship with him. He can be a part of the baby's life but he shouldn't have to be your boyfriend or husband. (And that IS thinking about the baby)
2007-02-07 05:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Way! If the mother is not happy than the baby will definitely not be happy. The baby can still see her/his father regularly as the mother and father wishes / or what they say in court. But NO a mother should NOT stay with her babies father "just because he is the father".
2007-02-07 14:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by gemittarrius 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before answering to this question , i need to ask some question from you too, 1st .... how r u related with this called father
2nd ...Do he love you?
3rd ....Do you love him and what are the good and bad point you see in him
4th.....you alone , will u be able to raise the baby up
5th.....does your parents wants u to stay with him or ask u to raise the baby yourself( ask u this question there is an answer behind , will let u know later when u answer to it)
6th... will your parents help you to look after your baby when u r out for work or anyone will be able to help u with this.
7th ... how long do u know this call father?
8th ....Do u love your child and can do all your best for your baby?
9th.....Are u a hot temper person, are u on depression?
10th ....Will this father , let you have your baby , if u leave him and give you trouble?
11th....Do he love the baby? From what you see .... how much and how deep is his love for the baby?
12th.... will he throw his temper on the baby when he heard the baby crying and will he throw his temper on the baby when he is not in a good mood?
13th...Did he do anything wrong or what make u think abt this question that u have post here?
14th...Will you be able to forgive and forget from what he have done?
hope u could help to answer all this question , from your heart . Think carefully before u answer to the question , then maybe i would be able to hep u. good luck.
2007-02-07 14:00:20 · answer #3 · answered by Love everyone with your heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not for that reason alone. The child still needs to have a relationship with him though. For the sake of the child try to maintain a friendly relationship with the father. If this is not possible you may need to get someone to be a mediator.
2007-02-07 13:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by jnjsnana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is definately not a reason to be with someone.
I was married for seven years and had two kids with him.
I stayed for a while because i had children with him but then I realized that I was making myself and him more miserable the longer I stayed.
If you think that he is the one then stay.
But think about it.
2007-02-07 13:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure the baby would appreciate having his dad around. It's not about you anymore, it' about what the baby needs.
2007-02-07 13:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Way!
2007-02-07 13:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by malybu18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Not good for anyone.
2007-02-07 14:55:25 · answer #8 · answered by Jodi C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋