Its a long distance relationship and she's lousy/boring on the phone. She's mostly quiet or sarcastic. I really like her but it seems like im the one puttin forth the effort to make the relationship work. I frequently let her know how i feel about her but she lets me know maybe once every 2-3 weeks. if i call her pet names or say goodbye in a cute way (or watever) - it doesn't get returned. Thats not a big deal except for the fact that at first she did it ALL the time. Now its like were more friends than boy/girl friend. It seems like i should just leave her but she'll be with me for a week in march so ill let that decide things.
she said she knows she's terrible on the phone and she's scared of how important i believe communication to be. So what do i do? Drop the broad or get her to open up more? And how the hell do i do that?
2007-02-07 05:36:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are people who arent talkative in the phone but is alright in person. Give chance to that time that you will see each other in March and decide if youll drop her. Long distance relationship is mostly based on communication. If youre not getting enough of it, the relationship may turn sour. Talk this out with her and tell her you want more from her when it comes to communicating and find solution that both of you willbe comfortable at.
2007-02-07 05:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by mareko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you sound like a very sweet guy and the thing about long distance relationships is they rarely ever work out. Not trying to like crush your beleif but ive been in the situation, She may be scared to commit or she's just not into you. You need to ask her if she really wants to be in this relationship. If she cant answer that in a yes or no phrase then she isnt worth your time. I may be only 17 but i know a little about this. Im not saying you guys cant be friends but maybe you shouldnt be gf and bf. Another option is that you can back off and wait for her to come to you. She may just want her space. hope this can help if not im sorry!
2007-02-07 05:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by Natasha0443 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well i had this same problem, i also have a long distances relationship and she was always being quite on the phone with me and stuff.alls u got to do is make her feel good like tell her if there is anything wrong u r there for her. for my gf if there was something wrong i would tell her to txt me the problem and i wont mention it to her this way its off her chest and puts her in a more talkative and better mood. and if shes quiet and nothings wrong just start talking about something u think will interest both of u that usually perks my gf up and its makes them feel more comfortable and u will most likely get a pet name or a cute goodbye back to u
2007-02-07 05:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by james d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well at least she admitted to you that she is terrible on the phone and maybe when she comes to see you in march talk to her seriously about the situations you were having with her on the phone and try to understand not push the situation just dumping her won't solve anything that will just make her mad and you miserable because it sounds like you care for her. sometimes it's better to talk in person than just over the phone because on the phone you can't express your true feelings towards one another hope this helps
2007-02-07 05:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by slpandsfp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the time you spend together decide how things go. Over the phone things can be difficult (e.g. flatmates in the room or she's in public with her cellphone). Why not send her a romantic card, saying how much you are looking forward to seeing her to see if it elicits a comment...
2007-02-07 05:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's lost interest in you and it may be too late. Long-distance relationships are too difficult to sustain. Sorry.
2007-02-07 05:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, if that's something that bothers you, you shouldnt ought to regulate it. tell her the way you sense and ask her how she'd like it in case you've been joking round, sexually, with different women human beings, to the point they concept you've been flirting with them. often human beings choose the shoe to be placed on the different foot with a view to comprehend what's "everyday" for them to do does not be if it became being done to them.
2016-11-25 23:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by allegretto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u open up to her she will 2 so i would just open up to her and tell her exactly how u feel she might do the same
2007-02-07 05:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by Lala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take some flowers and jewlery to her, tell her you luve her then u sit her down talk to her gently ask wats going on in her life
AND REMEMBER dont be hasty wit her just let her tell u in her own TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
luv jannel j
2007-02-07 05:41:50 · answer #9 · answered by Lil MiZ Jj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time to loosen up. everyone becomes more open in different ways and moments
2007-02-07 05:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋