how can i fix it? i have talked about it but he doesnt admit he has done wrong. he thinks i should get over it, and get on but everyday i wake up and im hurt. what should i do?
2007-02-07 05:32:52 · 24 answers · asked by hotstuffd2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how did he hurt u, if he cheated on you, hit you, then call it off,
2007-02-07 05:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can tell you one thing. DONT GET MARRIED! At least not until this is resolved and you feel better. Marriage is supposed to be forever and divorce is sloppy and can be really stressful. You shouldnt go into a marriage with these feelings, its unhealthy for the relationship. Im sure you dont want to call off the wedding but you could postpone it. If he wont even admit he has done wrong what can expect from him in the future, sounds to me like things will just get worse. Be careful, you have your whole life to find a man who deserves you and your love.
2007-02-07 13:37:49 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♫♥ Crystal ♥♫♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how deep the situation is if you love him work it out but make him pay at the same time. If you can't get past it,it has too be pretty bad so let him go, it's gone hurt for a while but if you deserve something better it will come to you. Afterwords throw it in his face that your happy and you don't need a JERK like him, girl you only have 1 life, live it without being miserable and unhappy otherwise your the 1 who is missing out!!!!!!!!
2007-02-07 13:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lovin Life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look hotstuff, if u have a problem at this moment with Ur bfren and every morning u feel hurt, don't u think that its going to be worst when u married the guy.
And how he thinks you should get over it, it seems like he doesn't care about you at all. You have done Ur path and i think u should start a new page in Ur life. A person will never know the good things that they have, unless they lost it.
2007-02-07 13:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by tyra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to sit down and have a really big talk. Getting married is a big step in life and you don't want to be unhapppy for the rest of your life. Also, when you get married you might have kids and if you are still unhappy the problem will just get worse. Yoe need to talk about the future before making a commitment. good luck and all the best hun
2007-02-07 13:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by sara s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a serious talk with him. What it sounds like it's that he's not taking the relationship as serious as you are. Some guys are too proud to admit they're wrong when they are. Eventually if he doesn't shape up you may have to dump him! I know that sucks but it's better than getting your heart broken everyday. There are better guys out there for you!
2007-02-07 13:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by lover4ne1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry him. If you are hurt now and he isn't addressing the issue then things will get worse for you in the future. What type of thing hurt you? Unless he talks through this with you and you can move on without such feelings I would not go through with the marriage. You'll regret it.
2007-02-07 13:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him then maybe he will stop and listen. But keep this in mind, if you do marry him expect this for the rest of your life that he will not be admitting anything and that you will be alone in dealing with emotional issues. He just doesnt care how you feel. Ask yourself if thats what you want for the rest of your life.
2007-02-07 13:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont mean to get into your business but what did he do? I could answer better if i knew, but maybe you are over reacting. If you feel this way now you wont be able to trust him or feel safe and you wont have a good marriage.if he hasnt admitted to anything then maybe hes not right for you. give me more details and if you dont want to then i wish you the best of luck in your marriage.
2007-02-07 13:38:46 · answer #9 · answered by California_Beach_Girl_14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one option is you can call the whole thing off. your getting married and you should be happy and excited. not the way your feeling. you dont deserve it. you've tried talking to him and thats good. but there is always a second coice. 2. do you still love him?? 3.and maybe get some counseling. you could save this engagement. and maybe it just wasnt meant to be. your seeing the real him. hope i helped and hope everything works out.
2007-02-07 13:39:15 · answer #10 · answered by hsmfan15xo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what was it that hurt you so bad..............if you think you are not ready to get marry with him than tell him that you need some time but if you know its a little thing and you are over reacting then just forget about it cause remember you cant be mad or hurt on the day of your wedding
2007-02-07 13:37:12 · answer #11 · answered by Hummm... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋