last week i ask her how was her throat and she didn't reply me.
I went to her funfair and when i got there,i text her but she didn't give me a reply,she only pick the phone when i call her.
I asked her just now why was my msgs unreplied and she said she missed her lectures and tutorial and was really busy.
I don't know how true is that but so busy that u can't give a decent reply?
I'm tired and i told her i know she's not intrested in me and i don't wanna waste her time.Also i told her to forgot that i have asked her out on valentine's day.[the answer she gave me when i asked her for a date was 'we shall see"]
she didn't reply me.
i'm ok but did i handle the entire matter in the right way a man would have done?
2007-02-07 05:29:28 · 18 answers · asked by Evans 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To chasey
she's someone whom i know at work but have went back to school.
she was the first who flirt with me but i think she's not intrested now.
2007-02-07 05:50:02 · update #1
To alex
lol,it ain't that bad cuz v.day happens to be my bdae and i have 2 gals asking me out.
anyway,i won't be alone on that day.
i'm even preparing to pamper myself with a tissot watch.
2007-02-07 05:51:53 · update #2
I feel for you, sometimes the person that we like or love dont love us back and it hurts. Well lets see, I dont know the whole situation but from the looks of it to me she might not be that interested like you. Females tend to me a little more emotional that guys so we of course do not want to break anybodys heart. She probably has other things that are of more priority and she does not want to hurt you by telling you. My suggestion to you is this, dont think and dwell over the fact if you did wrong, what you should do is this, let her know (whatever form of communication) that you are interested in her but that you recognise that she might not be. Let her know that maybe in the future things made change and it might be or not. Dont dwell over her, she is not the only person available. You can move on, I know sometimes its hard especially with V Day but dont feel bad. Go out with your friends meet new people, I believe when we least expect it somebody special walks into our life even it its for a short while. Everything happens for a reason...
2007-02-07 05:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its obvious that this woman is not interested and it doesnt really matter if you handled it a man should. The important thing is that you got your message across but the response was bleak so its better to move on. You will handle it more like a man if you will not insist on her anymore.
2007-02-07 05:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by mareko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have let it drop sooner. Some girls don't like to be tied down by arrangements the whole time - I can understand this as I also don't like to have to explain to someone where I am flying off to on business, what I am doing etc. Being too keen can scare girls off. Leave her alone and see if she contacts you.
2007-02-07 05:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a girls standpoint, it seems you may have come on a little strong. Back off, quit texting her and calling her, and see what happens. You seem like a really sweet guy - if she's worth it, she'll call YOU!
Blessings!
2007-02-07 05:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U handled it OK, but she doesn't sound like shes interested anymore. So I would just let her go and move on with my life. If its meant to be it will be, but u need 2 let her go u deserve something much better.
2007-02-07 05:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by bigmumu2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't mess with her.
as long as you will contact more, as long as she will hate you more.
so if you will not talk to her, she will be toasted on you. yeah that is bad, but there are people who like that kind of things. just brake away and don't contact her ever again, she is not worth you.
and next time try to be less active and hold your fire.
2007-02-07 07:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by esh_g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you were too needy try to keep this saying in mind next time you talk to her i think its pretty cool.
Keep on keeping on
P.S just stay calm and act natural
2007-02-07 05:35:37 · answer #7 · answered by Cool_Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you are a gentleman. Forget about this girl she is trying to play hard to get. Why don't you play hard to get with her so she can see how it feels to be treated like that.
2007-02-07 05:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by joy o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she rejected you in a polite way ...without saying things that might hurt you.
So my advice would be...move on, something will come up.
2007-02-07 05:37:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not ready for a commitment.
a man would give her some space.
she will call you if she has time to see you.
you can date other girls as friends.
2007-02-07 05:35:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋