I'm a nice guy, and I've been on one date ever (in december). She quickly lost intrest in me after she gave me her number and we went out. I'm 20 years old.
2007-02-07 05:18:08 · 20 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it your conversation ? Did you make the date fun some men just clam up and dont know what to say and some women just sit there and do the same. If you were not compatiable with her you are young and will find someone who is for you Dont fret there is someone out there you will meet them soon enough. Good Luck
2007-02-07 05:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best guess is that it all goes back somehow to caveman days.(I'm serious). It is a subconcious thought process that assumes that tougher guys will be more able to protect her and a family from the saber tooth tiger and kill a wooly mammoth for dinner. I'm not kidding you.
Although this is toned down today, there is still an asumption that nice guys finish last. They do. Nice guys feel bad or awkward in taking what they want or going out and getting what they want. They feel that if they do then they are pushy and a typical asshole.
Girls on the other hand, want to be pursued...hell everyone does. Girls like the fact that a guy is interested enough to be a little pushy. Nice guys typically don't have strong personalities...and while I'm not saying that a strong, over the top, persona is what you need to have, I'm saying that you have to be able to determine what it is about yourself that the girl likes and project that.
Also, there is that whole thing with the younger women. You'll find that as you get older so will the women and they will be more open about what they want. Don't sweat it. Just don't be afraid to go get what you want.
2007-02-07 05:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me my man there are girls out there that do like nice guys.Alot of girls do like "rough on the edge" guys but they don't last long with them.Always be yourself and don't try do be a bad boy because you would not be being yourself.You are still young and believe me over time you would have your chance to meet more girls.Stay in shape by excersising and eat healthy and stay away from drugs and smokes.As soon as these girls see that you are taking care of your body and you are in shape they will flock to you.Read good books also so you would be able to conversate with them and last but not least use humor.Women love to laugh so if they laugh with you most likely they will stick with you.
2007-02-07 05:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lighten up if you want in the dating world it isn't the come meet Mom get married world. It's good to be a nice guy and there is a nice young lady out there for you. It's doubtful they are at clubs try looking where nice girls go.
2007-02-07 05:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See heres the thing we want a nice guy we really do we just want you to pretend to be a bad as*..We like the thought of it..I cannot explain why but we do..So get a little cocky have some confidence and i am sure some will be checking you out!!
2007-02-07 05:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to be nice all the time, theres a place you can be nice, and sometimes theres a place you need to be a little be rough!!.
Sometimes nice guy is like being a gayboy. Too nice and too innocent to believe. Later on then we knw his gay, so change yr attitude is the best answer.
2007-02-07 05:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because nice guys go out with the wrong girls...I know people that compain that they're so nice and people are so mean but they always go out with the girl htat has like 100 men after them...why don't nice guys like nice girls?
2007-02-07 05:27:37 · answer #7 · answered by I MISS YOU! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls your age haven't settled yet. They want excitement and haven't yet discovered that it is much better to be treated good by some 'nice guy" than get your heart ripped out by a so called "bad boy"
2007-02-07 05:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn into a bad guy - the women will crawl all over you...sad but true. Immature women are attracted to an "Alpha" male. Give yourself a makeover, develop an attitude of quiet self-confidence and you will attract the interesting women, not the shallow ones.
2007-02-07 05:37:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey I know exactly what you mean. They really don't like nice guys and really don't like to be treated good. Because then they have nothing to b*tch about to their friends. Truest me I have been in 3 relationships over a year. One was 3 years. They just like to be treated like crap. Gentleman are a lost thing. Girls don't like them. They like bad boys that beat and verble abuse them and ignore them. They say they don't like them, but then they flock to them . Doesn't make since does it. The nice guys get brushed aside. To tell you the truth I really don't think that girls really know what they want. Who knows. All I got to say is keep trying and don't give up. Never give up. You are too young. Sorry for the bad news.
2007-02-07 05:27:23 · answer #10 · answered by Vthokie25 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋