I'm a nice guy, and I've been on one date ever (in december). She quickly lost intrest in me after she gave me her number and we went out. I'm 20 years old.
2007-02-07 05:17:23 · 43 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls do like nice guys. Girls just aren't attracted to guys when they don't have any mystery about them and when there isn't any challenge for them to keep interested in them. If you want to attract girls you have to tease them a little, but be nice, and don't give them everything they say they want immediately or else they will go find someone else who will give them a little more challenge.
2007-02-07 05:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by K 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You pose a very interesting question . Most girls say they would like a nice guy but when seeing them out and about it doesn't appear to be the practice of very many. I find that rather interesting and hard to figure out . Perhaps they do find nice guys boring . Sometimes it seems they have an innate or inborn tendency to find a guy they feel needs fixing or tamed and seek them out for the challenge of doing just that . My advice is when dating to not reveal all to your perspective relationship quickly and just relax and leave some guess work for the ladies so as to be a little more interesting . Vary your behaviors so your not so predictable but are nice at the same time. If you can strike a good balance between being nice and leave a little mystery in your attitude and actions I think it adds to your chance of success with girls. Good luck hope this helps some.
2007-02-07 05:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That Think That Most Of The Girls Like Populars And Bullies. Like In My School I Liked Girl That Was So Cute & Smart, But Then We Broked Up Because She Liked Another One! He Was Bullie. So I Did Not Worried And Recomend The Same Thing To Everyone. I Founded Another Girl That Realy Liked Me!Maybe It Coul'd Happen To You Too.
2007-02-07 05:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by IClassStriker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some do. Others have a low self esteem and feel they don't deserve a nice guy, so they settle for the jerks. Be a gentleman and pursue her. Show her that you know that she is a precious princess. (Only if you really believe she's the one) This sick cycle of dating and breaking up is destroying the heart of the woman. Every breakup makes the walls around her heart harder and stronger. Only the pure love of a good man can begin to tear down those walls. Nice guys are great! Don't get discouraged. If you know she's the one, don't give up. Show her that you love her unconditionally and will do anything for her.
2007-02-07 05:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by BaseballGrrl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls are just weird sometimes, they go for that leather jacket, motorcycle riding, cigarette smoking, bad *** guy. I've been there, done that and trust me this girl may have quickly lost interest in you, but she will also quickly lose interest in some bad guy, then she'll be searching for your number, it's just the way we are, i don't get it, but i dated the bad guy and ive dated the good guy, me and the bad guy last 2 years, me and the good guy are going on 5 years and were engaged, so just hang on and dont change your attitude or heart and spirit for no girl
2007-02-07 05:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys think that. Truth is, have you ever heard a girl say "I want a nice, sensitive guy."? That is what a lot of girls want. The bad boys always end up being short, crappy relationships. If you're looking for a girl who wants a nice guy, you should probably look for someone who wants a long term relationship.
2007-02-07 05:21:43 · answer #6 · answered by your wonderwall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably not the fact that you're a nice guy that made her lose interest. She just wasn't feeling it. That happens. Although, when I was younger I was always attracted to the "bad" boys. Now that I am older, I am looking for a "nicer" man that has his priorities straight. So just don't give up, every woman you go on a date with is not going to fall in love with you. That's life.
2007-02-07 05:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is coming from a girl. Now personally I LOVE nice guys. My boyfriend is really nice and not all that cute. Don't go for the popular girls.... I am kinda popular but not really. To tell you the truth. The girls that are REALLY pretty and SEXY. are REALLY MEAN AND RUDE!!! In my school girls don't like kind guys because most of them are UGLY! well not saying you are but all the guys in my school are... okay well i hope i helped
2007-02-07 05:21:49 · answer #8 · answered by lexilynds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen the matrix? You know where agent smith explanes how the original matrix was designed to be perfect, but people kept waking themselves up because they couldn't beleave that life could be that perfect? I think girls work the same way. They establish their reality through being mistreated. if a guy treats them great, its to good to be true. but not all girls are that way, so just keep looking. eventually your reputation as a nice guy will spread and the girls will be interested.
2007-02-07 05:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by rastapunker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Born, you know what, eventually they do, I sware they do. I used to think about the looks and the wallet and the personality was last...not any more...at all. I am not trying to sound like i am full of myself but men really like me, always have, but after getting burned by the fat wallets and lookers, I have grown up and learned to see what is inside,,,,period. Any girl/woman worth YOUR time, is going to see it that way, so don't worry, you just haven't met her yet...there are alot of us out there, you are young and young women don't get it yet, but they will...maybe try for someone a bit older than you who has been eduacated...!!!! good luck...nice guys don't finish last...ever.
2007-02-07 05:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋