So i met this guy 2 weeks ago and the first week after we im'd eachother everyday. i started all of our conversations and I still do. We found we have so much in common. He always dropped little hints like that's cool that you know that and oooo you live close to me and your a cool girl. He even admitted to me the things that make him cry, and most guys wouldn't even admit that they cry or have feelings for that matter. I was really sure he was into me. again, i started all our conversations.Then the next week after we met, we only im'd eachother like every other day and sometimes not even that. and when we did talk, he'd only answer with like one word answers like oh and yeah i always have to lead our conversations and i'm not too good at that. Is he annoyed? Am i overwhelming him? should i keep im'ing him? if so, how often should i im him? does he even like me? please help!
2007-02-07 05:15:58 · 10 answers · asked by rockchick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since you're im'ing, I'm assuming you're pretty young. When he's giving the one-word answers, does he sound nervous? Sometimes with a young guy, nervous one-word answers are the best indicator that they have a big crush on whoever they're talking to. Think about it like this: he's a lot more afraid to say something he thinks you might think is stupid now.
My guess is he didn't really like you at first that much, but now he's really into you. He just hasn't really done this before and is therefore incapacitated.
2007-02-07 05:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Tim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off. You've done your part.
I give you credit for actually starting things up...most girls won't do that. So you've given every indication that you are free and a nice person etc. His turn to make the next move.
Hold yourself back.
2007-02-07 13:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop IM'ing him now to get your answers. If he misses you, he will IM you himself. He knows how to use the thing and will if he wants to. If not, then he's not interested.
It's not rocket science. Just pay attention to what's going on!
2007-02-07 13:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
desperate for him much? lol jk. i think he was probably in to you but you suffocated him. make him want to talk to you, like dont talk to him for a while, and see if he sends u a IM, if he doesnt, be honest and come clean. then ask whats going on with him, oh wait, no! the other way around.
2007-02-07 13:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by .:xXx:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until he ims you first, that way it doesn't look like you are chasing him around. See how that works goodluck.
2007-02-07 13:19:08 · answer #5 · answered by Dolphin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i do not think he is bothered because u start or hold the conversation but u may said somthing that bothered him - check it with him
2007-02-07 13:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him and see hwta he thinks and give hima day or two to think it over then see..maybe then he'll come around
2007-02-07 13:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by sexycanadiangall2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do what you want to do! I f you really like this guy, go for it! If not, don't bother with him!
2007-02-07 13:21:51 · answer #8 · answered by ideal me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say give him a little room, make him work for it.
2007-02-07 13:19:47 · answer #9 · answered by ipfreely91 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DESPERATE. You weren't kidding.
2007-02-07 14:03:47 · answer #10 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋