My Fiance has lied so much and I have just been findind out over the past few weeks. For ex. he slept with the girl he bought his furniture from. He also slept over at his ex wife's house the night before we moved in. I just want to know should I tell him I am leaving or just pack up my stuff and go. I know if I tell him he will try to talk me out of it, but I have made up my mind, and I really don't want to hear how sorry he is anymore. Please help.
2007-02-07 05:08:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you've caught him in lies before and forgave him, but he continues to lie? If that's the case, why should he deserve an explaination? Pack up and leave before you decide to believe him again! Then find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated! Good Luck!
2007-02-07 05:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Similar situation has happened to me... he was cheating on me with a girl online though and would spend all hours of the night online with her exchanging dirty pics and what not... well I finally caught on and while he was in the room getting his rocks off I was in the bedroom packing my stuff. I waited patiently for him to finish his "deed" on the edge of the bed keys in hand purse in another and suit case already in the car. He walked in, in shock of course and asked where I was going. I slowly explained the situation in a calm manner and told him to go be with his Alabama beezie because guess what I am the real deal and he just lost out... OK sorry to be so detailed but basically I would wait for him by the door and if he tries to stop you tell him he can reach you on your cell phone and if he doesn't let you go then he has a different issue on his hands... good luck and I wish you the best!
2007-02-07 13:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by Angela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you have to do. He will not change. If you pack and leave you should at least leave a note. At least give him that. Explain why you are leaving. I think you are doing the right thing though. Good luck.
2007-02-07 13:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Vthokie25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say for you to pack up leave and forget the note (because guys a note really doesn't say its over unless ur in the 4th grade)and just call him that way you tell him yourself but not where he can talked you out of anything and you can just hang up when he starts talking bout how he wants you to stay and he will never do it again all guys are scum bags and you'll be better off with out him!!!
2007-02-07 13:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by b2uandthem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave. He's been too selfish to expect anything at all from you - including a note. He should know what's coming by now. You don't need to hear his whining and see his "I'm sorry i've been eating my own s***" guilty puppy dog face. Congratulations for getting on with your life and demanding better!
2007-02-07 13:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
handle it! take care of ur bussines! leave and dont turn back. u should even pawn the fu*ken the ring if he gave u one so u get some money outta of it! girl u need somebody that will appreciate u and love u not cheat and hurt u. just leave, just make sure u leave a note saying "good bye" cuz u dont want him reporting u as missing either.
2007-02-07 13:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by oc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave a Dear John note. He doesn't deserve anything more. In fact, you shouldn't have to leave anything for him. Why do you have to do him favors? Next time, before you get engaged, pay attention to what your future husband DOES, and not what he says. Don't be delusional and stupid like most other women who have incessant relationship problems.
2007-02-07 13:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him you're leaving. You can leave a note explaining why you're leaving, if you want, AFTER you've put your last box in the car. Leave the note with the keys and that's that.
2007-02-07 13:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by itsallaboutme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him a note, and he will be feeling real stupid afterwards...Leave him, and dont tell him, even though sometimes its best to tell him verbally, but if he is going to try to talk you out of it, leave a note, plus he will feel more hurt so now he can feel how you felt...
2007-02-07 13:23:42 · answer #9 · answered by lefteye w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could he possibly become physically violent towards you? If so, just leave. Also if you want to avoid the argument, leave.
Probably better just to leave a note and go.
2007-02-07 13:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋