ok i know its a typical question. ill just give my quick veriosn of it. im in my late 20's. all my friends have gf's. im good looking i have money and very fun to hang with. now when i was younger from.. 18-24 id go out, sociallize, party evry weekend and what not. i am little shy around girls. i go out i drink, basically im not a typical shy guy.. i just strike out. i have a"almost gotten thee" ill flirt with a girl then they'll lose intrest. its weird . i think i have done evrythign socially and even met a few girls online..the few i have met actually fell in love with me but i did not with them for various reasons...i just have trouble in the so-called real world...i have gone to state where i have given up going out..i feel i have tried evrythinh for the last 7 yrs...what can i do to change the way i feel about going out?
basically i got sick and tired of getting no where. i dont think im going to find my true love....peopel say to wait and be patient. dnt want to be 45 and waitin
2007-02-07 05:06:31 · 10 answers · asked by nycgreekguy004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good answers..im not only at clubs or bars..i go to peoples homes..ill appear in church evry so often...belive when i say i go to many difrent places...sad as it sounds i feel im at a desperate level..i am confident..but hing like that knock me down a peg..fine i cant let myslef whine..but like isaid i do give up after all these yrs.
2007-02-07 05:22:13 · update #1
Change your strategy, bars are not a great place to meet women, even online it is a tough scene.
Get involved locally in a club, co-ed sport, volunteer group generally any co-ed social activity that appeals to you. It will provide you with an opportunity to meet like minded women, and you already share in interest.
2007-02-07 05:11:44 · answer #1 · answered by smedrik 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-24 03:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you're looking in the wrong place.. I've never tried to find a companion in a bar or club, or a place where you "go out to drink".. Most people that go there are there for only one thing, well that's mostly true of men anyway. A girl for you could be right under your nose. For example, the first time I met my fiancee he was walking down the street and I found out he was my girl friend's brother.. then a few months later he came to my house with a group of friends. So it was weird, he came back to me. This happens to a lot of people, you will meet your mate in a place that's unexpected.. Remember, confidence is a BIG turn on for women.. as long as it isn't to the point of arrogance. You say that the girls seem to lose interest? Are you sure you're entertaining them the right way? I wish you all the best.
2007-02-07 05:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem, except I am only 17, soon to be 18. I have never had a girlfried either. So, I guess I am looking for answers like you are. Hey if you get good results, email me at fisher67@wildmail.com
2007-02-12 00:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by fish6776 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pray for the girl that will accept you for who you are! Girl that dont get bore with you, girl that don't get lose interest to you or the like...definitely you'll find one! oooops! sir if you really want to inspire how to look for a soulmate or the one for u, read the "The Bridge across forever" by Mr. Richard Bach..You will learn how to wait for the one, or just turn to your side maybe you don't actually see her but she's there..have a nice day! Godbless! :)
2007-02-14 14:13:40 · answer #5 · answered by katleen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop worrying about it. Girls can pick up on desperation. Get a few hobbies. You will meet someone when you least expect it.
2007-02-07 05:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the old me, a bit too picky. but eventually you have to realize that there are no perfect people. you have to accept their flaws and just have fun, you never know you may end up in love from their personality rather than looks
2007-02-07 05:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude meet chicks at the gym theres always ho chicks at the gym well at least my gym
2007-02-07 05:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by Cool_Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually when your looking you won't find anything so just wait around someone will find you remember theres someone for everybody.
2007-02-14 17:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by Pacman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your still a baby....don't give up... I wish I was in my twenties again... you'll find her when your not looking...
2007-02-15 01:45:41 · answer #10 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋