I know who my biological mother is but she refuses to tell me who he is. I am 33 yrs old.She was right out of high school and he was in college in Garden City, Kansas. He graduated from the community college. He was 4 years older than her. When she found out she was pregnant and left for California with her sister who then adopted me. She never told anybody his name and in the social service reports she gave his background. He does not know I was ever born..I would like to know what he looks like and for him to know he had a daughter. I can not convince her to tellme anything. I have tried everything in search of this guy, such as calling family members, checking into college information, friends of friends and I am running out of resources. Please if anybody has any more ideas as to how I can find a person without a name please let me know. thanks.....
2007-02-07 04:51:03 · 4 answers · asked by gcks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ask your aunt and if she won't tell you, then let it be...May-be your mother did something she shouldn't have. Like sleep with someone who is married or married the girlfriend he had in college or a teacher. Or may-be she was raped and she don't want to open old wounds. May-be she was with someone who isn't someone good at all and she feels it's best to not have you associate with him. Also, in college, sorry to say but a lot of people explore their sexuallity. May-be she did an orgy and don't really know who the father is. It happens. I'm not calling your mother a whore. It just happens a lot and that's life! If she doesn't tell you and you can't get info, then you should let it be and have a mentor. Someone like a father figure must have been in your life. Good luck!
2007-02-07 04:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by angelic1302 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just recently tried https://tr.im/NnK71 last month to see if I could track down my birth-parent. My bio father left me when I was 8, and has refused to contact me since. I grew up with my biological Mother and Step-father. I have only ever talked to my biological dad a couple times till recently. All I knew of him personally when I conducted the search was his full name, and the state of a previous address he used to have.
When the results came back based on the minimal info I had, It pulled up a current address even his phone number. When I called the phone no., I heard the voice of what sounded like it may be my step-brother. I asked if Joseph(my bio father) was present, and he said no but to try back after 7.
I haven't done anything with the info since, But yeah I found what I was interested in.
2015-02-21 15:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is freaky.... I found my real father in Liberal, Kansas by putting an ad in the Garden City newspaper. Be careful what you wish for. Mine turned out to be an @sshole. Good luck!
2007-02-07 04:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sit down with your mother and ask her why she will not tell you? Do you already know why?
2007-02-07 04:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by Master Richard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋