I'm single I recently met this guy whom I really like The problem is I had a fling with his brother not too long ago I don't run around but when I had met his brother I hadn't had sex for over two years & the boy is so sexy, we had sex three times, one of which dont really count. Anyway my new friend knows about the thing with his brother cause I told him as soon as we met. Is it possible for us to be in a real relationship after that? AND my friend is currently overseas he is hardly ever here for more than a few days, his brother is with him cause they work in the same field, doing the same thing although they don't work together. My second question is, he asked me surprise him when he comes in cause his birthday and Valentine's Day are around the date when he gets here, he wanted to have a party but decided against that. So tell me, what should I get him, if anything and how do I surprise him in a way that will keep me on his mind & make him forget the fact that I slept with his bro.
2007-02-07 04:41:20 · 14 answers · asked by DivaByNature,B*tchByChoice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I told the guy(younger brother) about the thing with his brother(older), the brother said nothing. Oh and I don't know if this matters but i'm not the first girl that he likes who had previously been "involved" with his brother. My friend even told me that his baby's mother is rumored to have cheated on him with his brother, whom he knows is a player. I have never had sex with the friend but that will probably change soon and the time that I said doesn't count lasted like two minutes, if you can't remember it, it doesn't count.
2007-02-07 05:52:11 · update #1
You had sex 3 times, one of which doesn't count?!?!
2007-02-07 04:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will be a little bit awkward at family reunions.
If it were me, I would end the relationship. This will only come up at some time in the future, maybe during an argument.
Oh, and EVERY TIME counts.
EDIT: Judging by your additional information, don't just end this relationship, RUN AWAY FROM IT. Here's one family I woudn't want to get even remotely involved with. I keep hearing banjo music.
2007-02-07 13:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much this guy likes you. It's possible that he will say "Hey what you did before you met me ain't none of my business". As for part 2 of the question, I know what I'D want. A nice romantic dinner and evening out.
2007-02-07 12:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you the truth I don't want to say but what I tell you to do is let him know that you have nothing to do with his brother and you going to save your self for him.If you really like this guy I say have sex with him and say you want him and no one else.
2007-02-07 13:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by wahid d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how much you love being with him and you'll never do anything to hurt him, show him your love for him, maybe a sexy night or wear something sexy just for him, as far as getting him something, think what he likes and go from there. Good Luck.
2007-02-07 12:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by minnesotabluerags 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A nice photograph is all I can think of if he's usually far away.
But, sorry to tell you this, but everything does so too count.
And I don't believe for one minute that he will ever forget.
2007-02-07 12:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by Jed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably wants to sleep with you 6 times and 2 of them wont count.
no guy wants a realationship with some beezy his brother already bent over...... he might tag it a couple times too but dont expect anymore than that.
2007-02-07 12:48:49 · answer #7 · answered by RedEye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see a future for you as a guest on Jerry Springer.
2007-02-07 12:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his brother told him you do it.
you even confirmed it.
he wants some.
it's all a bit too close to home. you should move on.
2007-02-07 12:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it,s better to break the relation ship up till you can be for faithful it better to do that then to live in the pass till you make up how you truely love.
2007-02-07 12:47:08 · answer #10 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋