i have been with my boyfriend for 20 months, and i cant get this other boy out of my head. i first meet the other boy about 3 years ago, and i would say that we are semi-friends, but i really like him. a lot. i dont know what to do. should i break up with my boyfriend, to try and get the other guy, or should i just stay where i am.
my boyfriend:
lives an hour away
has been in juvi
is not a virgin
is christian when convenient
the other boy:
is pratically my neighbor, and is over all the time
never been in trouble with the law
is saving himself for marrige
very christian
i am:
never been in trouble with the law, but not perfect
saving myself for marrige
and try very hard to be christian
what do i do????
2007-02-07 04:27:46 · 11 answers · asked by smcopeland16 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, honey I know how you feel. I'm so into my pastor's son, and have been for three years, but I know that nothing can happen between us so I developed a cruch on someone who isn't a christian. The bible says that we should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. That doesn't mean you shouldn't be friend with non-christains, but for that kind of intimate relationship, it's best to date someone who shares your own faith. It'll be easier to save yourself for marriage if your don't have pressure, no matter how subtle, form the guy you're dating. Break up with your boyfriend, and ask God whether you should pursue this other guy. Good luck, girl.
2007-02-07 04:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by Simply Sasa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the other guy whos been in trouble alot and NOT a virgin do you think hes gonna want to be with you and stay with you or get some and go?
But then again the other guy who IS might be looking to get some too.
Be careful and follow your mind and your heart but not so much on your heart cuz it plays tricks on you sometimes
2007-02-07 04:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by The J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with what feels right to you and you boyfriend sounds like trouble if you lay down with dogs you are bound to get fleas
2007-02-07 04:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by toosexy4thisshit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer, Boy#2. You've only seem to list negatives about #1-so I assume he has no good qualities so he's no good for you.
2007-02-07 04:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by Black_Beauty97 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like its time for a change. the new guy sounds like a pretty nice guy. you dont want to get mixed up with the wrong people and wind up in juvi yourself.
2007-02-07 04:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by Kwijibo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religion: scam
You should: get off your high horse and realize that you arent in the 50's
other boy: lied about being a virgin, they dont even make those any more
2007-02-07 04:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The other boy sounds pretty boring
2007-02-07 04:33:36 · answer #7 · answered by DS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump your boyfriend for the other guy. He sounds better.
2007-02-07 04:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by 3120johnsons@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart
2007-02-07 04:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by paul lee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to weigh your feelings, one of that feeling is just infatuation, you might not recognize it... then fallow your heart... do what makes you happy....
2007-02-07 04:34:49 · answer #10 · answered by tinkerbel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋