First week after i met my gf we went on 2 dates and cooked dinner together on a Friday night. Second week she slept over for 6 nights in a row, we did every thing but intercourse. Third week we went on more dates. Four weekend she went to Vegas with some friends (10) for 3 days. When she got back we had sex for the first time. Few weeks past, we were seeing each other a lot. One day, I found some Vegas pictures her friend posted on Myspace. 90% of the pics with my gf has this same dude next to her (I felt like they had a fling in Vegas). I asked her and she told me that she met him through another friend 3 years ago. After some interrogation, she finally confessed that they made-out in Vegas (kissed once and nothing more. I think is BS, when I met the guy he was aggressive and touchy with the ladies). She said at the time I never mention exclusive dating. Is she right? What about time we spent b4 Vegas? GF & I together for 460+ & counting. They still keep in touch through AIM
2007-02-07 04:15:35 · 8 answers · asked by myestate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Things happen just keep dating, and let her choose the path. If nothing happens in a few months and you notice her spending less time with you then just move on.
2007-02-07 04:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by PrettyEskimo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with her on this one. Until you have commited to each other that you are dating exclusively, then you both have the right to see other people. That is just how it works. She slept over after knowing you for only two weeks, then you can't expect her to suddenly get morals.
If you want meaningful relationships, then leave the sleep overs and the sex until after you are married, girls will respect you more.
2007-02-07 04:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's right - if you did not have a discussion about it being exclusive you should not have assumed it was. My bf and I have only been dating a week but we already talked about that and agreed not to see anyone else and just focus on each other.
2007-02-07 04:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have an agnostic who has successfully challenged his beliefs and bravely faced the unknown in order to seek the ultimate answers. Then you have a theist who has never explored another thought process out of fear and/or pettiness. A person who no longer seeks for the answers because they believe they already possess a monopoly on them.... And that second individual is telling that first individual that he has all the answers. its just pathetic, thats all.
2016-03-29 09:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to officially declare gf/bf. it is kind of a given after awhile. you can do better than this girl. she obviously didn't respect you or consider how you felt. let her go
2007-02-07 04:21:36 · answer #5 · answered by Hello Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you have to declare exclusive to each other. if you don't you are not really exclusive. Always akward.
2007-02-07 04:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by Work is for Busters 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation, no matter wat you both do together its not really exclusive till you acutually "ask" we go out n kiss all dat good stuff but we "arent goin out" if you know wat i mean so you cant call it cheating or wateva cuz your "friend with benifits" get it....... shes right in a way..........
2007-02-07 04:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by SW_GURL19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I call bullsh!t.
2007-02-07 04:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋