MY ex and I broke up 6 months ago. For the most part we had a great relationship. But he was depressed even suicidal. I told him that he needed help,but only wanted to talk to me. Then he told me why, he got a one night stand pregnant and didnt want anything to do with her. Then, I helped him come to terms with it only for him to leave me to be with this girl. But what was worst he turned on me and talked about me negativly to this girl. I was shicked. Yesterday, I got an email from this girl saying they were firends and that he was seeing another girl behind her back, then calling her telling her he loved her. Alot of his lies came up in all this. He cant dare confront me because I truly feel he is ashamed and a liar. But what kind of a guy does this? He told me he wasnt that type of guy to sleep around and it made him feel gross after. But even after all the suicide talk, getting a one night stand pregnant he still is sleeping around. What is wrong with him really? Bipolar, BPD?
2007-02-07 04:15:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
He was not the man for you really! When a man leaves a woman and treats her so cold he is trying to supress his emotions or is a plain old deadbeat. Thank God that you are not with him because this was a prelude to what would have come inside the relationship from obviously what is an unstable man. Of course he had to save face when he was in the presence of this woman. He wants her to think you are manipulating when in fact is the manipulator, but you let him inable you to proceed without him. Remember this, we all tend to question other people's motive and try to come to some king of excuse for negative behavior when we are dumped. Have you ever thought... He is just rude and uncaring. Why do she have to be "trash". He may have lied to you. Hi is a liar right? or maybe he told you the truth when he said he don't believe in one night stand. Their relationship or situation lasted in the long run, longer than one night.
Depression may have been the root but never the cause of rudeness. He may have been depressed over his obligations to her child and dealing with those issue ... the point, stop bieng his therapist and accept the loss your and his. Brush your shoulders off lady and stand tall.
2007-02-07 06:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by Ordena H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to know what's really wrong with him. Maybe he's ill; maybe he's just not a nice person. In any case, you're out of it. Let it go, stay away from him, and get on with the business of having a good life.
2007-02-07 04:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by TeriR 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is a way to know. People sometimes is no honest with others or with themselves. Just dont be so naive, and move on... You are seing trouble, and just YOU can decide if get in trouble or get away from it....
GO AHEAD....
2007-02-07 04:24:18 · answer #3 · answered by myself! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing! He is an attention seeker who is not worthy of a wonderful, loyal woman as yourself. Leave hiom to get on with his existance and you find someone who will really love you.
2007-02-07 04:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by Arizona Brit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't diagnose this guy, but it is possible that he has BPD and a host of other disorders. Either way, you're better off without him.
2007-02-07 04:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by tangerine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy is a compulsive liar and control freak.
cut your ties and leave him to it.
you deserve far better.
seriously, there are nice guys out there.x
2007-02-07 04:18:36 · answer #6 · answered by Paula 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him and disassociate yourself from him ASAP
2007-02-07 04:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by Lee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is just a jerk, stay away from him. u don't need all the drama in your life.
2007-02-07 04:25:42 · answer #8 · answered by Miki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on ....... get away from this guy?
2007-02-07 05:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by Pixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please avoid this person and move on with your life. He is toxic to your happiness.
2007-02-07 04:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by lifeisagift 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋