what is haveing sex like?...i want to find out what it is like before i do it...thanks
2007-02-07 04:14:04 · 17 answers · asked by in_L-O-V-E_w/daniel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it's with the right person, and you're ready, it feels great.The first time can be awkward and painful (it hurt me A LOT) but my guy was sweet and gentle and took his time with me. After the pain wears off (it can take a few times), if you're in love, you can feel passion and this sweet warmth inside when you're doing it.It really is giving a part of yourself, as well as feeling part of yourself joined with someone elses. I tend to feel warm and tingly all over and it feels like we are the only two people in the world. Time passes by slowly and unnoticed. It may be different for other people, but this is what it feels like for me, being in a very loving relationship with the first man I've ever been with.
2007-02-07 04:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by ConfusedHMD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is something that is very different for each person. there is no way that anyone can predick what it will be like to you. What i can tell you is that in my experience, what makes sex such an amazing thing is the closness it brings you with a person that you love. if you don't love the person you are haveing sex with, then the deep emotional connection isn't there and the sex is just something that you desided to do. it loses its specialness. I wouldnt be to excited your first time, dont expect a whole lot. for most girls it is ackward and it hurts the first few times you do it. but, sharing that experience with someone you know cares for you very deeply can make it more of a positive experience for you.
2007-02-07 12:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? and if the answer to that is anywhere between 12-16 or whatever the legal age is in your country/state or younger, then go take a cold shower and go do your homework.
If you are above the legal age limit then no one can tell you what it's like. It's a different experience for everyone ESPECIALLY the first time. First advice is this: CONDOM, CONDOM, CONDOM. DO NOT DO IT WITH ANYONE UNLESS A CONDOM IS USED AND USED CORRECTLY. Secondly, since it's your first time, it could be painful and also messy it helps to do it with someone who is experienced and knows how to be gentle. Third and last of all: Make it with someone who means something to you - THERE IS NO CHANCE FOR A SECOND "FIRST TIME" and you will NEVER EVER forget your first time - so do your best to make it worth remembering.
good luck to you.
2007-02-07 12:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by Slim Shady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on alot of factors...before you even consider having sex, make sure you are emotionally ready for it, and ready for it with the partner you're with...if you guys have any trust issues or communication issues, do not have sex....i repeat that, do not...it will only make issues in those areas worse....
provided that you are emotionally ready, you need to find a quiet place, free from distractions and where you both can relax....you can expect the first time to be awkward, possibly a little painful, and very possibly very short...most guys tend to not be able to hold *coughcough* themselves very long the first time, and dont be disappointed if you dont orgasm at the same time or at all....just keep your expectations grounded, and expect it to get better....as long as you and your partner communicate and take things slowly, gently, and lovingly, your first time will be your most special-- though maybe not your most physically pleasureable ;-)
2007-02-07 12:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by Mary J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a great thing i won't lie, but you should make sure that you are really ready. There are so many things that some with having sex. so many responsablities. Not trying to scare you but alot of my friends did not think of these things. Im 25 and most of my friends started doing it when they where 16. I waited and im glad that i did. I waited to go to the docs to get birthcontrol. thats so important. alot of my friends didn't and they had to go through things that im so glad i protected myself for. How i look at it is if you are ready to have a baby then you are ready to have sex. Sorry to be all mom like but make sure you are ready and safe and make sure that its with somebody that really cares about you and its special. when you get older you think back about your first time and you dont want to remember it with some loser in the back seat of a car. Sorry i will shut up now.
2007-02-07 12:22:05 · answer #5 · answered by rain9439 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first time can be a little akward, messy, and even a bit painful. My best advice would be to not be to judgemental about the first time because it does eventually get better. Take it easy, and go slow so things run smoothly till you get the hang of it
2007-02-07 12:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by Leo_Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first time it will hurt if you're a female. I don't know how it feels to a male. I hated it the first time. The first time will effect you from now on if it's with a loser. If it's a good gentle person, your memories will be better.
2007-02-07 12:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
since this is ur 1st time it is best dat u consider PROTECTION.plus having sex the 1st time will hurt because u haven't done it b4....u'll bleed bcause of the walls of ur vagina spreading... and most of all u will wake funny if u walk rite away after u've done it.....but most importantly think about it b4 u decide to lose it.
2007-02-07 12:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by Bootz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try masterbating with your finger or some sex toys.
2007-02-07 12:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a finger, then mutiply that by the width/size of what the dude who is about to bang you is packing.
2007-02-07 12:18:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋