we have been dating for almost a year and still have not said those three words. of course, i do love him, but i don't want to be the first to say it. he has been through the ringer from his last two major relationships and is scared to death of the thought of marrying again. so, basically, i do not want to scare him on valentines day. any suggestions?
2007-02-07 04:10:13 · 8 answers · asked by Hello Kitty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-07 04:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by drjayz_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him a neutral card.
If it's been a year, and he's still afraid to get attached to you - you may be wasting your time. Using one's past as an excuse to be dysfunctional in the present is lame, IMO. So don't go all crazy for Valentine; if you two are not in love, then this isn't the holiday for you to celebrate.
2007-02-07 12:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of something nice to do for him! Bt not something over the top, have fun during valentine's day!
And Maybe during this time would be the time to say "I Love You"!!
But that is up to you!
Buena Suerte
Good Luck!
2007-02-07 12:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by .:§hady Bonita:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Nancy,if you love your bf then let him know. be a bigger person and make a step, it will be for the best,if yall have been together for a year then there's no doubt in my mind that yall don't love each other,tell him you love him,I believe he is scared
2007-02-07 12:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by crunkests 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess saying the words i love you is a big thing but theres stil
nice things you can do
2007-02-07 12:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by Janice M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should say it if you mean it erite him somthing and then at the end of it say i love you on the end so ya...i hope you have a wonderful valentines day
2007-02-07 12:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by in_L-O-V-E_w/daniel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him out to dinner. or get him a movie, or a shirt, or an i-pod shuffle and fill it with his favorite songs.
2007-02-07 12:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
candlelit dinner and watch a movie.
2007-02-07 12:15:47 · answer #8 · answered by Triskelion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋