I met this girl a few months ago and we were working toward a relationship. We went out a few times and she said she's not ready. She really meant i wasn't her type but she didn't want to let me down hard. I bugged her about giving me another chance for about a week...texting her and talking to her online. She called me a stalker and banned me from her myspace page and stuff. I haven't had a relationship in a long time. Now i feel really bad cause i didn't ever want to hurt her and now she don't want no part of me. She thinks i'm crazy. Help!!!
2007-02-07 04:10:01 · 11 answers · asked by Q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just leave her alone I would be scared too if you did that to me! So if your not her type and she wants nothing to do with you find someone else! Just make sure you leave her alone before it gets out of hand and you end up in jail for stalking.
2007-02-07 04:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by smile114 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave her alone. It's in your own best interest. She called you a stalker--that's not good. Respect her privacy and freedom to make her own choices. Ask someone else out instead. This girl may eventually realize that you wished her no harm and view you as a friend. If you have another conversation with her make it clear that you understand the boundaries, but if she ever needs a friend that all she has to do is call. Good Luck
2007-02-07 04:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that the best thing to do is to leave her alone and give her some time and space. yeah what you did was not cool at all but she will probably get over it too. if you feel really bad than you will do what the rest of us are telling you to do. leave her alone. i guess that you dont want to leave things like that with that girl but maybe in a month or two you can contact her again and say "hey what i did was stupid and wrong and hopefully we can still be friends" or something like that. good luck!
2007-02-07 04:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not crazy, if she didn't want to be with you she should have just told you so, she implied she was not ready and you took that as she was not ready, so you tried to get another chance with her. That's not being a stalker my friend. That's just trying to get with someone based off what they told you, if she wanted to let you down easy she should have said that you were not right for each other. She is the one with issues and I would never speak to her again. Don't worry about her, and find you someone new.
2007-02-07 04:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
even however i'm Christian i do no longer "choose" people who do nto have faith in a guy & women folk reltionship. interior the bible it needless to say states it relatively is a sin----yet is it extra of a in than a drunkard, mendacity, fornication? Can or no longer it relatively is forgiven? the element is that anybody i understand (and love) the is gay says they have continually felt that way. yet, why might God "rattling" somebody for something they won't be able to help? maximum Chrisitians sense it relatively is a sin that must be triumph over purely like all different temptation. i myself am no longer gay yet to opposite the region, i might in no way be with a women folk. So- making them be with the oppisite intercourse is alot to invite.
2016-12-17 11:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by alisme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not much you can do, if she lets you talk to her, you can apologize and explain just as you did here, but it's her fault too, don't feel too bad, just move on, and remember, especially with girls, they may be more afraid than you realize of what an obsessed guy could do, even though it sounds like you aren't obsessed at all, her misinterpretation can be forgiven.
Good luck, hope you meet the right one soon, it's worth some stress and heartache!
2007-02-07 04:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry she feels the way she does to tell if she really likes you back off for a week and try again contacting her with some flowers or something nice.If she blows you off again know the next girl you are with don't rush it. just consider it a life lesson you will bounce back
2007-02-07 04:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by drightchristy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wasn't for you, get over her and have no more contact with her. You need to move on and find the right girl for you.
2007-02-07 04:15:22 · answer #8 · answered by kissybertha 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is learn from your actions!!!
Leave her alone right now as that is what she wants.
Good luck next time.
2007-02-07 04:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by katy k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she won't forgive you for messing up. You need to move on and find someone else. Sure you messed up and she should forgive you for that but it sounds like she won't so you need to look to find someone else and forget about her.
2007-02-07 04:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋