love a married man?

Question

.I met a married man on the net, a very religious married man and we became friends 8 yrs ago. We cliked immediately and spent a lot of times playing games online etc..and talking in Ims. I fell for him in a big way and he knew it and he fell for me too but we are both married so we kept it friends only. I would give him advice to help him in his marriage and he would do the same for me and both of s just wanted the other to be happy in our marriages. Things crashed around the same time for both of us in our marriages and we discussed meeting. before I met him we discussed the what if we fool around question...I was very worried that if we kissed or more he would regret it and we would not be friends anymore.he assured me that he would be fine with it even though I told him no sex because I know he would regret cheating ....We met it was beautiful we made out afterwards he asked me to marry him then no word for 6 months ..What do I do now?

Answer 1

i once met a married man a few years back and we hit it off so crazy it scared me, but i had to respect him and his family. We talked about everything and we had lunch everyday and till he moved cross country and still to this day we talk and tell each other everything. And i could see our self's being nothing but friends and nothing more..

Answer 2

He is probably trying to work things out with his wife and the first step is to get rid of YOU. Here's how it works sista! He didn't have to work at his marriage, or listen to his wife, or make her happy or be a family man/husband because he had this woman on the internet he could talk to, share with, and it gave him a release, flattered him, made him feel important. You also did the same thing. Well when things crashed for you, you said "oh I have him" and he said "oh well I have her" then you met, and he decided that he was giving a marriage up for some woman he doesn't even truly know, and the mystery was gone, and in the end, he goes home and his wife or wife / children are leaving, packed, the house is empty, and he realized, he made a huge mistake. Sorry but thats the truth. You need to find an available man and stop wrecking peoples homes and lives. Grow up and be responsible. Now you have no one, would have liked to tell you "I told ya so"

Answer 3

basically imagine the problem in which your spouse and her husband is planning an identical element and that provide you with such as your answer. Stand again and have a glance at your existence. Why the shortcoming of interest on your modern-day spouse? what's it about this different lady that makes you imagine you want her? Is it basically the excitement of the "forbidden fruit"? Why did you marry your spouse interior the first position? i'm particular you loved her, or theory you probably did. you basically opt to determine out which it change into. in case you very virtually loved her, then deep down interior someplace you nevertheless do. in case your causes for marrying her were something except love, than imagine about what they were and if the situations are different now, you want to judge them. This married lady that you "love", do you forsee that replacing interior the destiny besides? in case you do, or imagine there is even the potential of it, then you definately likely shouldn't pursue something such as her. You both have lots to lose, and no matter if it really is on a danger, is it truly well worth it? i imagine you've lots to imagine about.

Answer 4

Jenny T,
First of all, you should not be talking to a married man or any man for that matter, because you were married. That PC connection is probably what caused both of your marriages to fail. Then, it is a sin to have sex out of wedlock. After you two made out and He asked you to marry him, he may have started thinking and the Lord may have started speaking to Him about his wrong doing. You said he was a very religious man !! All I know to say to you is to Pray about it and wait. If the Lord wants the two of you together, He will work it out in His time, in His way. Maybe He(God) is waiting for both of you to truly repent of your sins and include Him in your lives. Then He will let you share that love with someone else as well. PRAY !!!!!
God Bless You,
Itchy

Answer 5

well you did cheat on your hubby even though there was no sex. hello. You love another man. Your internet guy is guilty and thinks that meeting you was a bed idea. or maybe his wife found out and now he is locked up in the basement. how are you going to marry somebody when you are already married to someone else. Also i guess he is not that religious because he just commited a big sin.

Answer 6

First of all you and this person made a bad decision. Either one of you was right. But you can do the right thing now, by breaking all ties off with this person. And if this person was so religious in the first place he would not have cheated with you. If this so call person do decide to married you. They will do the same thing to you.(Cheat)

Answer 7

Go look in the mirror then slap yourself as hard as you can. What were you thinking. How could a man be married, very religious and be talking dirty with you?

You've been had and that's that. Let it be a lesson to you.

Answer 8

First of all should I remind you what you guys were doing was wrong. I think the only reason both of your marriages went down was because both of you guys. You got what you wanted now you can't be together

Answer 9

Wrong, wrong, wrong,

Let's start with the concept that you both wanted to help each other be happy with your marriages.

The way you do this properly is to say these words.

GET OFF LINE WITH ME AND GO MAKE UP AND BANG YOUR LOVE ONED.

You are both selfish creaps.

Answer 10

I didn't even read your question. You can't love a married man, he's not yours. You want to break up a marriage, that on your head.